So, you've been dumped and now you want to make your girlfriend jealous so she'll go on bended knee to get you back. Of course, I don't know how your breakup came about, but maybe it was a little too hurtful and she needs to really understand that. Maybe you want her back in a way that she realizes that you're something special and not to be taken for granted. Whatever, but you need to bend the power of jealousy in a way that annoys her like a persistent itch.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #1 â Understanding Women and Jealousy
Women are very paranoid about their relationships, that is a very important fact when you want to awaken that little imp called jealousy and get him on your side. Without a doubt, a woman, even if she's dumped you, is afraid she'll lose your care for her. You've perhaps noted the vain bastard who is careless about women's hearts, yet always has them panting. The brigand makes them swoon, but we decent types don't even get a nod.
Ignore her. That's your first move. Now, don't act like a jerk; employ some finesse.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #2 â Make Her Feel Like She's Missing Out
I know you want to tell her that she's a worm you wouldn't care to step on, that's just not going to work. Why make her mad? That's all words like that will do. And you'll come off as a creep. Neither of those are your goal.
Make a very conscious effort to avoid her. Don't have any contact with her at all. Display a lot of disinterest should she make an attempt to reach out. Be very cool. But don't push it to the point of nastiness. Now is the time to kick up your heels. Let all your mutual friends know what a great time you're having. You need to become the fun guy you once were.
Women hate boredom. If your ex starts hearing about your exploits she'll be a bit more than just interested. She might start feeling left out. She'll be remembering the fun times you guys had when you were together. She'll be wondering why she let a fun guy like you go.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #3 â Turn Up the Heat
Now you're working. You're being somewhat stand-offish when it comes to her. And, you're having lots of fun with your terrific friends. The next step is a big one. It's time to play on the jealousy heartstrings. She probably is wishing she were part of your crowd once more.
Finally, you need to start involving some women in your life. Don't date seriously since you want your ex back. But it wouldn't hurt for others to see a lady on your arm for a coffee break or lunch somewhere.
Sooner or later word will get back to your ex and she'll start wondering. At this point, she's going to be wondering if she goofed by letting a fun and interesting guy go. She'll start asking herself if she should make a move to get you back.
If you've played this jealousy card right, she'll be a little beside herself wondering how to go about getting you back. All of a sudden, you have the upper hand, you get to make the choice. She snubbed you. But now the ball is in your court. You can decide what to do about the relationship. Remember, it pays to be nice. No matter if you decide to take her back or not, don't be a creep about it. Don't be a bad guy, she's got feelings, too. Besides, wouldn't you rather be remembered as a nice guy instead of a creep?
If you found this article helpful and you'd like to learn what to do after you've made her jealous be sure to check out: My Girlfriend is Jealous and my Ex Squared System review on my website where I'll take a look at Matt Huston's program for men that want to start pushing those emotional hot buttons.
Steve Steiner enjoys helping men deal with the conflicts and challenges they experience in relating with women and helping them form successful relationships.