Ladies, you can find a bunch of tips out there on the internet on pleasing your boyfriend and being a better girlfriend for him, but most of the advice out there is missing the essence. You have to focus on pushing the right buttons in your boyfriends mind so that he'll literally go mad of excitement once he orgasms. As a result, your boyfriend will love more than ever. So, here are the 5 things you should to that can literally blow his mind if you do them right.
1. Get naughty. Really naughty.
Guys want you to be "dirty" in bed, and an angel in front of their mother. So do exactly that. A lot of you ladies are afraid that your new boyfriend will think low of you, or believe that you are a "sl*t", well - he won't. On the contrary, he'll adore you for being his personal porn star in bed. Why do you think men watch pornography? Think about it.
95% of guys out there want you to be naughty, sexual, daring. Nobody wants a robot girlfriend in bed that's afraid of opening up and letting go. Get comfortable with that guy, start feeling good in your body. That leads to the second thing you should do to drive him mad.
2. Look better.
Yes, it may sound shallow, but it's reality. We get turned on by good looks. Men are visual. We want to see stuff, tight stuff, sexy stuff, lingerie, a silky smooth skin that's adorable to kiss and touch. Looks count. Period. That's why I advise you to start working out and eat healthily. You don't lose weight by starving yourself to death, so join a gym.
Women that work out on a regular basis are a lot more attractive, and are more comfortable in their body. If you want to blow your guys mind, you absolutely have to be relax in bed, and you can only achieve that if you feel good in your own skin. Get confidence, love yourself, feel sexy and he'll feel turned on next to you. The point of going to the gym isn't just that you'll look better, but that you'll have a sexier personality. That's the point.
3. Believe in yourself.
What I notice with most of you ladies is that you are constantly afraid of "being bad", or "messing it up" or "looking dump from up there" when giving your guy a blow job. All these fears just make you mess up, and they don't help you at all. Sex should be fun, so make it fun, if you mess up - so what? It's not the end of the world. Every guy will appreciate the effort if you give your best to please him and generally have a pleasing personality in bed. Give and you'll get back, but start by giving first, and expect nothing in return. This way you'll get the most satisfaction back.
What you need is confidence, real confidence. And you don't get that overnight. You can get it in two ways: the first one - get more experience, and the second one learn from the right source. As for the first thing, the more often you can get your boyfriend to have earth-shattering orgasms, the more you'll believe in your sexual ability. So it's always better to stay in a long term relationship, get comfortable and try Everything with a capital "E" that you can think of. Confidence shines through in bed. Be daring.
4. Submit to your boyfriend.
I can already hear some of you saying "I don't submit to anyone!" and all that nonsense. Ladies, if you want to please your guy to the fullest and enjoy a happy relationship, listen to what I preach. Men, naturally, want you to be below them in bed. They should lead the action, so let them do it. The more submissive you can be in bed and let yourself be dominated by your man, doing whatever he wants to you, getting on your knees and giving him the best oral sex of his life, all this will make you the perfect woman in his eyes.
I've been with more women than I can remember, and I never had good sex with women that always wanted to take the lead in bed, be on top all the time and try to dominate me. That's how most guys feel. In bed, give him the power, and you'll see immediate results. Submission leads to the next thing.
5. Give him the best oral sex of his life.
Men crave oral sex more than anything. And if you're not giving him the best blow jobs of his life, he might look for it elsewhere. Especially if his ex was pleasing him that way all the time and you don't, then you're facing a serious problem. Giving him great oral and giving your best to please him in every way possible shows that you submit to him sexually and that he is your "Daddy", "master" or however you want to call him. The right words at the right moment can be magical - so don't forget to talk dirty. It's simple, if you believe in what you say, whatever you say will come across as genuine and good-sounding.
Get out of your head and enjoy the moment. Back to blow jobs. Really, ladies, if you can please him in that department better than any other woman out there, you've got him forever in love with you. Treat him like a King and he'll adore you for it.
When you put all these things together, you'll definitely drive your boyfriend sexually mad in bed every time. And not just in bed, but everywhere else as well. Don't limit your sex life to the bedroom. You have to create memorable moments.