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Mobbing in the Workplace: Has This Happened to You?by Susan Dunn

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Mobbing in the workplace has long been studied in Europe. Just look it up on a search engine. Described in "Mobbing: Emotional Abuse in the American Workplace", published by Davenport, Elliott, and Schwartz in 1999, mobbing is about collective assault in the corner office, in cubbies, on the assembly line, or in the board room.

It is an insidious form of psychological abuse conducted through innuendo, intimidation, harassment, badgering, humiliation, degradation and rumor. As a personal and professional coach, I listen to clients all the time who have been through this or seen it happen, and together we struggled for words to describe it. This book gives us the words and is the beginning. "Until evil is named," writes Daniel Maguire,e professor of ethics at Marquette University and author of "Ethics for a Small Planet," it cannot be addressed.

I was pleased to read that it's a tort. It should be. I was also pleased to read that, should the 'mobbed' individual need therapy, it is to be considered an injury, not an illness. This book is a serious call to action to decent human beings -- be they managers, CEOs, or employees; and describes a syndrome coaches, counselors, trainers and therapists need to recognize. If you have been the victim of mobbing, and are still suffering the consequences, please get help.

A mob is one of the most vicious subcultures in any society. Powerfully described in the classic, "The Ox Bow Incident," we understand that a mob behaves in a way no individual human would. "Single-focused, whipped to a frenzy by a puffed-up martinet and unfettered by normal restraints of morality," writes book reviewer Mary Bradley, "the mob is merciless in its assault." In the worst-case scenario we have a lynching or a holocaust.

Did you not know immediately what this term "mobbing" meant as applied to the work world? "People are aware of it, but they never had a name for it," says Elliott. "When we speak to people, they know immediately what we are talking about."

Study after study in psychology proves that people draw a perverse strength from the group and will do in a group what they would never do alone. Normal moral behavior, common decency, if you will, is discarded by the same sort of mentality that produces a gang rape. The new manager whose reports decide to drive him out ... the competent but beautiful new receptionist who's pulled down by jealous co-workers ... the manager who becomes threatened by the talents of a report ... Done by peers, subordinates and/or superiors, the goal is to force someone out using gossip, ostracism, intimidation, discreditation, humiliation, and just plain meanness.

The blame is projected on the victim, who, 'gas lighted,' becomes confused, has trouble perceiving correctly (that people could really do this), and accepts that he or she is incompetent, to blame, etc.

Dr. Heinz Leymann, German industrial psychologist, is credited for identifying the syndrome in Europe, Japan and Australia where he studied it for nearly 20 years. He lived in Sweden and estimated that 15% of the suicides in Sweden were the result of mobbing in the workplace. It is cruelty in the extreme, a group bullying process that can go or weeks, months, even years, until the job is done. When interviewed, mobbers often claim they didn't know they were harming anyone.

Mobbing is a particularly insidious form of emotional abuse, and the impact on the individual can be devastating. The authors cite cases of individuals unable ever to return to work after mobbing. In addition,mobbing is a serious behavioral risk-management issue for organizations. It destroys morale, erodes trust, cripples initiative, and results in dysfunction, absenteeism, resignations, guilt, anxiety, paranoia, negativity, and marginal production. Key players leave and the effects are long-lasting.

Mobbing is a "widespread, vicious, workplace tort [civil wrongs recognized by law as grounds for a lawsuit--and in this case an intentional tort]," says Scott H. Peters, Esq. of The Peters Law Firm. P.C., Iowa (quoted in the article "Did You Hear of Mobbing?" by Elliott. It is difficult to stop once it gets going, but managers can learn to recognize the patterns.

In the book the authors even cite cases where HR managers were 'ordered' by superior 'mobbers' to support a mobbing process.

In personal correspondence with Ms. Elliott, she told me that people often come up to her after her talks and say, "This will never happen again on my watch," which is heartening. Emotional intelligence (EI) and awareness in the work place are one of the antidotes to mobbing.

Author's Bio
Susan Dunn is a professional coach specializing in emotional intelligence. She is a speaker, writer, educator, and author of many ebooks on personal growth. Visit her on the web at www.susandunn.cc .

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Later on the disabled's coworker asked her if her child was getting a "Ms. Degree" as if my child, who graduated high school with an IB diploma and almost 2 dozen college credits earned before graduating with honors, had no brains and was only going to rely on her looks to make a living.I don't think lesser educated people as my coworkers enjoyed realizing that a noticeably disabled employee was more technically astute and that I refused to get jealous about all the bragging they did to try to get me jealous--I rarely mentioned my computer science degree because I wanted to be sensitive to others who were probably smart enough to get one, but maybe never had the time.
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The first day the disabled took sick leave the disabled experienced debilitating TMJ for the first time in her life, that left her unable to chew food for days and still has to mitigate.The supervisor and supervisor's boss put the disabled on AWOL while both the disabled and her husband were both sick, husband was having cancer surgery and HR was so rude as to say that cancer wasn't always serious and that all the documentation disabled provided was not enough. Disabled lost all coworker friends at work. Coworkers repeatedly accused disabled of only aspiring to be a housewife after she left the job and couldn't accept another job due to declining health,while at the same time calling her a nut and calling the cops on her, and telling her to go get a job while she was accused of being a nut.
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The task leader would say, "Don't write this down!" After task leader would talk for 15 minutes, task leader would say, "Okay, now you can write down what I just said."Disabled was the only computer science major there while the supervisor and many others had no college degree.Supervisor got angry that the deadline was never put in disabled's note taking and demanded to photocopy the disabled's note she took during the meeting-which also did not list any deadline and disabled or task leader did not mention any deadline either in writing.Supervisor rarely writes any emails or gives any written instructions and creates an atmosphere where no one wants to communicate anymore because they are being criticized for their communication efforts.
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Disabled's coworkers who asked disabled if she was having a nervous breakdown after they saw her cry, started trying to get her to go out to expensive restaurants when disabled was tired, then when disabled declined, the disabled's coworkers said, "Okay then you can cook for us at your home". Coworkers asked alot of nosy personal health questions, and financial questions. Supervisor screamed in front of disabled while everyone overheard. Supervisor told disabled it wasn't possible to take notes on a computer during a meeting and pay attention to meeting and inhibited the disabled's desire to take notes at all. Then the supervisor got the mentor working under her to try to convince the disabled the same thing--taking notes on a computer during meetings was supposed to be impossible. Disabled employee pointed out that their other contractors they liked were allowed to do this without criticism.
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Supervisor passed by the disabled's cubicle saying she wanted to "take them out and rearrange someone's face" but building security worker and no one else thought this was an issue since supervisor did not have a disability. The coworkers tried repeatedly to get the disabled person to go to the gun range with them but the disabled person kept refusing. When the disabled person quit, they started telling the disabled to go get another job, then when disabled said they needed to take care of their health, the employees called the disabled a nut and called the cops on the disabled person.
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The disability was apparent in a certain employee and they attacked the disabled's verbal speech, telling her not to speak so "jerkily" or too fast or too slow, they told the disabled to send them an email update after telling them same thing via chat, then got fired for "confusing coworkers with too many email updates" that the task leader had requested. the supervisor made sure disabled employee overheard the senior IT manager be instructed to use all email evidence to fire the disabled, and the senior IT manager would come to the disabled's desk to tell disabled that email was either too formal or too informal, needed bullets or didn't need bullets, they found something wrong with the disabled emails in person verbally but wouldn't go on the written record except at performance reviews.
Michael  Lee
Michael Lee (Persuasion)
Mobbing or office politics can be very stressful to a person. When I was still working as an employee years ago, I got subjected to various treatments such as being scolded in front of other employees and being wrongly accused as a "spy" to upper management simply because I'm doing my duty with a conscience. Thank God I'm working for myself now. - Michael Lee, Persuasion Techniques Expert
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one of the first contribution the disabled tried to make was to introduce herself to others and ask what their roles were there, and met a contractor who was discussing CMMI with a contractor training a senior employee in Blackbelt. The senior employee had a management degree, and he said, "She wouldn't know anything about that, she's a newbie". I told themI had studied that in my Software Engineering and started discussing the finer points and terminology of CMMI and then the trainer said, "It was as if you read my resume" Even after that, my 2 senior coworkers would repeatedly ask me, "Do you have confidence, Do you have confidence?" around the same time as if they decided together to ask me the same question during the same day or week. I found a bug in the system which was intermittent, which I felt my supervisor should be aware of, when the bug seemed to go away because of intermittency, she criticized me for giving updates.

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