If you've never had a breakup in your life, then you've either lived a very sheltered life or you've been really lucky! I mean most of us have been left by someone we're still in love with and most of just figure out, in a hit and miss way, how to move on and get over the heartbreak.

But what if you're the person who knows they've just been left by their soulmate? What if you're the person who's tried all the usual things to get your ex back and nothing's worked? And so now you're asking, "How can I make my ex want me back?"

Well this article will give you some tips and then it will show you one of the best sites on the net currently helping thousands of people work a gameplan to get their ex back.

So here we go...

The good news is 95% of all breakups could be healed and the couple could go on to have a happy and healthy relationship, if they knew what to do and how to do it (but right now I don't want you to worry about the plan, the site I'm going to show you at the end of this article, has the plan ready and waiting for you, so don't even worry.) All I want you to understand right now is that the reason 95% of all breakups are not mended is because one or both of those involved decide to walk away.

So the first thing you need to consider is why the breakup happened. Whatever the reason, you have to come to terms with it and if it's a situation that you can fix, then you must think about how to fix it. That means later on, when the same situation arises with your ex, you have an action plan in place ready to deal with it. Again, don't worry too much that you don't have the plan in front of you right now. Your job right now is to get yourself ready to use the plan, that will bring your ex back to you.

It's very important that you don't come across to your ex as being needy and desperate. You will find that for the plan to work there must be no desperation on your part. You have to appear calm and rational to your ex no matter what's going on inside. You will not believe the strength of your position when your ex sees you getting on with your life and not being erratic and begging them to take you back.

What happens when you appear confident, is that immediately your ex is asking them self if they did the right thing leaving you? Once that happens you are in a position of power and often, an ex will come crawling back and asking for another chance.

Have you tried to make your ex jealous yet? Sounds like a logical move to make, doesn't it? Well really it's one of the worst things that you can do. Think about it, all you're really doing is showing your ex that you've moved on and that they should do the same.

What you should be doing is have your ex think that they're a great person and that they were one of the greatest things in your life. If you appear confident and together and don't go around doing erratic things like trying to make your ex jealous, then your ex WILL begin to believe that you are indeed confident and together, and they'll start asking themselves why they ever left you in the first place.

What really needs to happen is for you to arrange a meeting with you ex, so the two of you can sit down and talk about what went wrong and how to heal the breakup. The problem is that if you go into that meeting with your ex not fully prepared, then chances are you're not going to get the outcome you hoped for. In fact, you'll probably wind up making things worse. But again, don't worry, because the plan that you'll use to have your ex come running back to you, will prepare you and will have you ready to go into that first meeting saying the right things.

What happens after that? You wind up with a 95% chance of getting your ex back.

To answer your question "how can I make my ex want me back?" it's really very simple, just make sure you behave in a particular way after the breakup and then go to the site to get hold of your action plan and follow the step by step instructions there.

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Wishing you all the luck in the world and I hope this advice is what you're looking for!