How can you tell heâs cheating on you?
No one wants to think their guy is cheating, but if youâre beginning to be suspicious, well, there thereâs smoke thereâs fire. Of course we psychics get a lot of calls about this â does he have another woman? Is he cheating on me? I havenât seen him in two days, where is he?
Itâs wrong to cheat on someone you love. It hurts in the heart. But if you suspect, here are the top ten clues that someone is cheating. Then youâll know when itâs time to find out for sure.
1. Too much time on the computer behind closed doors.
This is the No. 1 clue. I read for lots of people who are dating, and itâs the no 1 way to meet people these days. Well, those women who are dating online tell me all the time about the married men who write them, and how they start right in with indecent proposals, or want a picture of them naked. So if heâs on the Internet all the time, and doesnât want you to see â look out. You can also get specific help from The Closer (www.thecloser.cc. Itâs discrete and sensitive and thorough.) Watch your Aries guy on this one. Itâs not like a fire sign to spend hours in a room, with a computer, with the door shut!
2. Overtime or working later.
Especially if this is NEW. Itâs an easy way (they think) to cover up an affair. This is an easy way for Pisces to cheat, because they have more spare time on their hands to begin with. If suddenly heâs got weird meetings all the time, in the evening, look out. Also they may âsuddenlyâ be working out-of-town.
3. Hang-ups or dial tones.
Have you ever been in love with a man? Now tell me the truth, didnât you call him a lot, sometimes just to hear his voice on the answering machine, especially if he wasnât available to you at the time. If the phone rings and when you pick it up and say âhelloâ you hear a click, uh oh. If your guyâs a Gemini, this is a good place to look. Theyâll want to be in constant communication with the new chick.
4. Lack of interest in sex or sudden abnormal desires.
Anything different in this area, unless thereâs a cause like medication, can mean trouble. Like suddenly he wants you to wear something weird. Of course if your Scorpio guy loses interest in sex, itâs a major sign.
5. Hiding or âlosingâ the phone bill, cell phone bill or credit card bill.
A lot of the women Iâve read for who caught their man cheating found out through bills. I guess they get careless. Youâll find a bunch of calls to the same phone number and itâs a number you donât know. One woman I read for found out he had charged $800 on the cell phone that month. Maybe you always paid the bills and suddenly he wants to. You know thereâs trouble without having to go any farther. Watch your Virgo guy on this one. You KNOW they arenât going to lose or misfile a BILL. Come on now.
6. Accusing you of having an affair.
Well thatâs just one of the nutty things men do â turn it around. They start sneaking around, so of course they suspect YOU of sneaking around. Sometimes too theyâll just pick a fight hoping youâll leave or something. Find out early while you can still work on the relationship. This is all about early detection. From what I hear, this is an Aquarius thing.
7. Excessively critical or unbelievably nice.
Both of these are sort of coming from guilt. Guys know itâs wrong to cheat on their woman. Some become critical and pick on you about everything. Suddenly it seems like heâs never in a good mood, and that you canât do anything to please him. Other guys start being sugary sweet. He hasnât given you a gift in a year and suddenly there are a dozen roses. Or worse, youâve been after him to let you have a vacation and suddenly heâs telling you to go on a cruise and take your sister along, his treat, and make it a 2-weeker. Uh oh. A Leo often shows you theyâre cheating this way, because flattery is their game. They will start flattering you like crazy and fawning all over you, or suddenly the pussycat is all claws and growls.
8. Taking off or âlosingâ the wedding ring.
This one is just pathetic, like you wouldnât notice. Me and my girl friend had a flat one day and pulled over to the side of the road. Well this guy pulled over and came charging out of his car to help us and we were laughing because we could see the outline of his wedding ring in his shirt pocket. Well then they for get to put it back on.
Guys donât just lose a wedding ring. Think about it. I know guys whoâve hung on to the same wedding ring for 50 YEARS. Donât be fooled by excuses, ladies. Watch a Taurus on this one. After all, a ring costs something, and moneyâs what itâs all about with a Taurus. Not like him to, um, misplace something of value.
9. Taking pictures out of their wallet.
I donât know why they do this, but they do. Maybe he feels guilty having the picture of you and the kids in his wallet when heâs cheating on you. Check his wallet every now and then, or ask him if heâs still got your wedding photo in there, and can you see it, pretty please. A Cancerian who removes photos of his family from his wallet is sending you a big, big message.
10. Last big one â new interest or hobbies, activities and even eating new kind of food.
One woman I read for, well they had always had pretty plain cooking, steak and potatoes. Suddenly heâs asking for things she canât even pronounce. Or he starts talking about Harry Potter when you two donât have any kids, or he wants to take up golf.
Think about when you were dating. Didnât you always pick up some new interest from the guy? You can tell it with your girl friends, too. I remember once the girls were talking about weight loss and I told them the anecdote about Laffit Pincay eating one peanut on a plane trip â half at the beginning and half at the end. âWho on earth are you dating?â they asked me. I was dating a guy who was in to horse racing. (Laffit Pincay was a famous jockey.) Watch those anecdotes. If your TV-watching, video-game-playing Libra sweetie suddenly starts quoting Proust, uh oh. Where do you think he got it from?
Well, I hope it doesnât happen to you, but if it does, it pays to know the early warning signals.
Semiramis, Psychic and Astrologer, http://www.webstrategies.cc/PsychicSemiramis.htm , firstname.lastname@example.org. Readings by email or phone. Charts-birth,Saturn Return,Spiritual Path,compatibility,your childâs. Readings on all matters-love, money, career,lost love, broken heart, cheating. Confidential.