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Just Move On - Get Over It
I once read an article stating, "For closure in a relationship you should JUST MOVE ON when your ex says it's over." JUST MOVE ON, huh. The article further stated that yes it sounds harsh and the discomfort will not just go away, but over time you will GET OVER IT. I cannot comprehend how you get over loving someone. (Do not make me go into detail) I have not reached that level of understanding. Getting over love would mean it was not LOVE in the first place. Oh! That could be that 'people love' I talk about. Just fling people around at one's leisure.
There are countless books, EXPERTS, and other people that would agree with that statement, and have reworked the GET OVER IT message one thousand times or more. I supposed perhaps that it is easier to shut down and resist our feelings than deal with them at their core. Dealing with emotions would force you to think and possibly improve your position. Addressing your flaws would hold you accountable for your actions. Mmph. Now why would you want to do that? Funny huh? Author Guy Finely said it perfectly. "Imagine how different life would be if we understood that nothing happens to us that is not sent our way to help us learn more about the eternal nature of love."
Choosing to disregard a person is a cold and irresponsible way of handling a delicate life. As the receiver of that fear how would that feel to you? Sure, some people choose to walk away from a relationship for whatever reason, in silence. Some lie their way out because the damage is done and they do not know what else to do. Others become violent. And then there is that ½ percent that choose to STAND and face adversity with a desire to learn and understand their errors. That would be me. When I am stuck it is because I know that there is unfinished business or unspoken thoughts left to address within. Any effort to reconnect conveying all that you have learned and to learn from others if they would be open to teach is reason to appeal to anyone who has wronged you or vice versa.
Our image reflects who we are. Is the image you have presented and are presenting to others the one you want to leave with their Spirit? I would prefer to leave a vibrant image of myself behind. What this message is really about is showing respect, telling the truth, and valuing delicate human life. It is about cultivating genuine friendships. I repeat, I learned the hard way.
It's also about the next Spirit(s) that you decide to travel with internally. A soul created with emotions—someone's mother/father, sister/brother, auntie/uncle, cousin/friend…etc. He/She is important to others. He/She deserves to be presented with your best because what you present is all he/she has to go on. And when someone takes time to show you love in any form, it is better to communicate your honest feelings even when they are not mutual, that way messages are clear. After all we are not here to crush each others Spirits, we were intended to inspire and hold each other up on our shoulders. I am telling you something I know to be true. I am a very intuitive woman.
A DIAMOND NUGGET:
Our journey's are not bridged together overnight. We detour, go left and right, in circles, and turn corners before we come to any understanding. Terrence Howard stated in an article, "I have to look at people a little longer and dig a little deeper and see where their heart is. From perception comes understanding and that leads to a road of wisdom. But even that is tempered with a bit of fear." I can relate. I care for people out of instruction, knowing, and out of pure love. And the only way I am able to do this consistently is because I believe in God's power, I believe in you, and I believe in me. Give someone a chance. Better yet, give yourself a chance to truly enter one of lifes' greatest mysteries, LOVE.
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