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Reclaiming Our Boundaries As Empathic Sensitives
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Carolyn Gwiazdzinski |
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We are in the midst of great change on this planet. We are all being pushed to wake up within the inner levels of our emotions. As empaths and sensitives alike, we may feel like there is no way to reclaim our sanity, much less our personal space (our inner space) and our boundaries. I am a conscious empath and do readings to assist, all who are ready, in waking up to their journey of discovery. However, it wasn't always this way for me. I went many years, without knowing where my boundaries began and ended, and when someone was within my personal, inner space. Yes, I could tell when someone was being mean-spirited or unkind, under the guise of sounding pleasant. Could detect that feeling a mile away. But it took many years of searching; for understanding, as to what was happening to me and why I felt things the way that I did, and why others did not feel them the same way.
This discovery of wrongness, began very early in my childhood. Did not have the verbal skills, but did have a very strong feeling that something was wrong...and in the midst of this wrongness, I always had a sense, for when the tides would change and head into a downward spiral of despair and emotional destruction. Those were the dynamics, within the relationship of my family; parents and siblings. At 25, I decided that I needed to do something, wasn't sure what the something was, but knew I would figure it out. A chance conversation with my boss over lunch one day, lead me in the direction that I needed to go. My boss had had a most devasting life experience, that could not bring back the loss of her husband and new baby...but she didn't stop living...she found help, good help, to assist and guide her back to wholeness and most importantly, back to healing. As I had shared some of my childhood with her, her response to me was; if this gal could help me back to myself, she can do wonders for you; meaning me. I called this counselor and spent the next year, 2x's a week in hour long sessions, learning about boundaries, communication and the appropriate foundation for family dynamics. There was a catch, I would have to do all of the homework I was given, or not come back. I chose to do all the homework I was given.
At the end of the year, I discovered to my amazement, that it was the best gift I could have given to myself. That was not the end of my journey...for intuition began calling me loudly. I began doing my homework...reading and classes on top of classes on top of classes. My teacher took one look at me and told me to be prepared, this would move quickly. I began teaching and doing readings. I felt clear enough and healed enough to be able to share what I was learning and felt comfortable enough to teach, because teaching from my life experience was easy to do. 25 years have gone by and along my travels, I picked up many healing modalities, whether from reading or class experience...as I developed what worked for me, I began to discover, that with consistent practice, on an every now and present moment experience, these tools began to work their magic.
Tough emotional lessons and experiences still do come into my life...but the tools that were learned and put into practice, have become my godsend and life force, for being able to surf the waves we call life.
So, for all you senstivies and empaths, there is a way to heal and reclaim your personal space and boundaries...and there is a way to protect your soon to be developed abilities...but, it is not a one time deal, but an ongoing process...the more you use the process, the greater your inner strength will become.
We are being called to participate in the transformation of our life...take a chance, have the courage and protect yourself with understanding and awareness...for in truth shields don't work, they create a false illusion of safety, until the next wave comes along....knowledge, understanding and awareness are being called as your guiding light...
Trust in the wisdom of your heart...one breath, one step at a time.
Author's Bio
I am a conscious empath and my purpose is to act as a bridge and a guide, to assist all who are ready, to bring understanding and awareness, to the patterns of your past, so that each now and present moment, become a heart centerd, soul guided life.
Visit: lightcounselreadings.com
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