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Stop Wasting Your Time They Don’t Speak Your Language
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Sola (The encourager) |
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She asked me! Sola, you talk a lot in parables; I can’t even understand you sometimes!!! I paused for a moment and asked myself? “Am I too hard on her”?
Do I make things complicated for her?
How else can I communicate with her, what can I do to make myself understood?
Which part of this word, she couldn’t understand? Okay! May be someone can rescue me out there. I went home, and planned that night to seek the face of God concerning this issue. Most people that know me always saying, how easy I communicate and give them advice, but this person still found it difficult to understand me! Maybe I need to slow down and think harder before I could speak to her, I jokingly said to myself.
Honestly speaking, I believe in checking myself because I am not perfect and I know sometimes I do make a mistake. It’s not that I want the approval of people all the time, but I need to know if I am doing something wrong so that I can learn more.
The situation was a very complicated but the advice was very simple, she simply not getting it because she doesn’t speak my language.
I see so many people struggling to carry people that are very difficult and not ready to change, we spend our energy on those that are not seeing us as God sees us, we want their approval all the time, we want them to see what we are seeing, when they don’t even recognize our voice, we worked ourselves up for helping those that did not appreciate what we are doing, we determined to make them to be what they are not ready to be or would never be. We keep sowing on a hard ground.
God is not in agreement with us doing things by our strength, we need to consult Him first if they are ready or one day they will be ready, we can’t force things to happen unless we are instructed to persist in carrying them.
Friends, I have done it so many times! And it’s not worth it! You will waste all your energy believe me, I was drained and frustrated.
I went before the lord and asked Him to help me: This is the word I learn (see below) and it changed my life, so, I seek Him first and I know if It’s worth it or not.
The book of Mathew7:6. “Do not give dogs what is sacred: do not throw your pearls to pigs, if you do, they may trample them under their feet, and then turn and tear you to pieces”
A word for the wise! I hope you catch the revelation in this, my prayer, may you catch it; some people are really not worth wasting your energy on!!!
Seek for people that need your Wisdom.
I wish you happiness.
Sola (The encourager)
www.solapublications.com
Author's Bio
My purpose is to encourage and motivate people that are motivated.
My joy is to introduce and call the attention of people to the promises of God for their life.
I believe every one needs a little courage to keep going on, so many people in higher positions are bleeding emotionally and dying slowly for being lonely and rejected.
I learn to appreciate, Accommodate, Give chance and allow people to shine their differences, we are all sons of God, and I don’t take that for granted.
My reason for this is to assure everyone that they are the best! And they need to believe in themselves and what they do.
Even the great Paul the Apostle needed to be encouraged and God send him Titus.
My purpose and focus is to raise more Encourager and I am proud to be one of them.
Be encouraged.
Sola (The encourager)
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