The Last Self Help Book You’ll Ever Needby Halina Goldstein

How many times have you seen this teaser: "This will be the last self help book you'll ever need" (or the last self help product, seminar, course…). And did it ever come true?

Before I've read the last self help book I've ever read I spent 30+ years of reading, studying and practicing all kinds of self help philosophies, modalities and techniques. That's a long time and a lot of books! (and courses, and seminars). So why did this book become the very last one? Was it because it was better than all the others?

No. A book is a book and there's no objective "better" or "worse" - it depends on who you are, when you're reading it, how you're applying it and so on. So what was so special about my last self help book?

It was radically different from all the others. You see, every other book (and course) I've studied until then was about self help and self improvement in a very literary sense of the word. The basic assumption was that there was something wrong - with me, you and the world - and it needed to be helped and improved. Which was fine, because that's exactly how I felt. So to me, at that point, every book and every course was a real help in that sense. Only there was one problem with that:

The techniques I learned and used worked part of the time in some areas of my life to a certain degree - but not all of the time and not in all areas of my life and not all the way. There was always something that I wanted fixed that just couldn't be fixed no matter how hard I tried. So after a while I would always end up looking for another solution - another self help book, another course, another therapist...
Which was fine - I loved my self improvement journey every step of the road! But then...

At the final stages of that journey I started having a very strong feeling that things were not quite what they looked like. I started sensing that there was another truth about me, you and the world that was so mind-blowing that I couldn't wrap my mind around it. I knew that from this other perspective everything was perfect already - including me, you and the world. Only it felt like there was a giant stone blocking my way to that place and preventing me from really being there, really living from there.

So I started to explore if I could use some of the techniques I've learned to remove the stone, or walk around it, or climb it or fly above it somehow. But no. Even if there were moments of freedom, sooner or lighter I'd find myself back in limitation, back in frustration, back in the dream from which I wanted to awaken but couldn't.

Then one day I found this brand new work and I knew immediately that I just had to have it - even if it took me a little while before I fully realized that this was not another trial and error experience. This was something entirely different. My journey was changing in the most dramatic, radical way I've experienced throughout my entire life. I was, at last, on the road to awakening.

Now, there are a lot of books and courses about awakening.
Most of them speak of awakening but keep you asleep.
Some of them urge you to awaken but don't show you exactly how to do it. And since awakening from the dream that you're dreaming is possibly the most difficult human achievement ever and seldom happens all by itself, knowing how to do it is crucial!

The last self help book I've ever read gives you all the details that you need. It offers a simple set of tools. If you use the tools as instructed in the book (or one of the courses, whichever you prefer), you will gradually awaken to your Infinite Nature and start experiencing it in your daily life. Since I’ve started using them I’ve never again felt any need or motivation to read another self help book again. But then, it's not self help in the usual meaning of this word:

This material does not assume that there is anything wrong with me, you or the world and so it does not help fixing anything at all. It is self help in the sense that it helps you awaken from the limiting dream you're dreaming and live as your real Self.

And the name of the last self help book I've ever read?
It is "Busting Loose From The Money Game" by Robert Scheinfeld. If you'd like to learn more about it, visit my Busting Loose Resources, where you'll have an opportunity to get a more profound impression of the busting loose material and my personal experiences from the busting loose journey, as well as ask questions about it.


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