Ways To Say I Love You

By Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.

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The best ways to say I love You involve not only words, but actions as well. They don't cost anything and come straight from the heart.

Yes the words are absolutely essential, but those words need to be reinforced with strong action. Your lover needs to see your love as well as hear it. If you say "I love you" and yet you never spend time together or show affection, then your words will be questioned. If your words say one thing and your actions say another, then doubts will arise.

The importance of this should not be underestimated or overlooked. It is essential to the quality and success of your relationship.

The expression of love should be consistent, spontaneous, free and bold. Let your lover know without a doubt, each and every day, that they are loved, desired, appreciated and special.

Here are a few ideas to help you on your way.

• Just say it. Say it out loud at least once a day.
• Give them a loving hug before they leave for work.
• Whisper it in your lover's ear as your grocery shopping.
• Take a walk in the moonlight holding hands.
• Write it on the mirror in the bathroom after a steamy shower.
• Put silk sheets on the bed.
• Tell them or write it on a card "I can't imagine my life without you."
• Learn how to say "I love you" in sign language.
• Put a picture of the two of you in a small frame and sit it on their desk.
• Replace the light bulbs in the bedroom with a soft sensuous color or their favorite color.
• Make an origami heart and leave it on their pillow.
• Wake your lover by whispering "I love you" in their ear.
• Bring your lover an "I love you" balloon.
• Send your lover secret love mail.
• Text them or call them in the middle of the day just to say "I love you."

Use these suggestions as a guide, but also learn your own creative ways to say I love you that reflect who you are and tend specific to your relationship. Treat your lover as if every day is Valentine's Day and your relationship will flourish in splendor.