Is there any trick or wonder words to makeyour ex answer your calls?
Though you might think there's no way because he/she is so mad, believe me there is.Your ex is going to want to talk to you, in fact he/she is going to want to call you back. Good thing right?
This is one of the things people ask me more about. How can we make up if he/she don't even answer my calls? I'm gonna tell you how you can have your ex calling you back, don't worry
In the Magic Of Making Up, There's acomplete strategy.
If you use this technique without the whole plan, the effect won't be the same, you need to know it all.
What you should NEVER Say!
Even more important than what you should say is what you should never never sayBecause it never works, and worse than that, It gets you in an AWFUL position.
These usually can be divided into two categories
The PLEAD where you sound like this:
"Johndoe, please, please call me. This is the 5th time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And now the EMERGENCY call that sounds like this:
"Janedoe, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."
You can see what is wrong with this, right? Yes you can, so let's move on
You have to use two very powerful forces Curiosity and self interest, those are two very dominating forces in the human mind. Again i tell you: Curiosity and Self Interest.
And now the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you get the magic words you were looking for. Now let's see what you can say that works nearly Every Time. In a friendly and calm tone:
"Hi Johndoe. It's Janedoe. I just wanted you to know I truly appreciate what you did for me, it was really nice of you.Call me because I would really like to thank you"
Can you see the difference? Here you use the curiosity, he/she thinks: what have i done for her/him? And the fact that you want to thank him/her, will make her/him feel good.
Believe me you'll get a call back, all resistance will fall. Remember that before you call, you have to think of something to thank for, it can something simple, but it has to sound plausible
But Very Important, WARNING! Again
You need to have a complete strategy like what you can find in the
Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
If you use this technique without a strategy, you won't get the results you expect and want, you need to know what to do. You need a plan, a total plan, not just the call. What I mean here is
All that you do before, during and after you get your ex to return your call, is MUCH MORE important than getting your ex simply to return your call.
It makes sense to you? i hope so, you need a full plan
Have a PLAN
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