There are people in the world who have the ability to pick up information about others without needing to use their five senses. It is then as though part of them tunes into another person’s field or energy and shortly after this, their conscious mind is aware of this information.

A Good Connection

If someone was to utilize this information, it could be said that they have a good connection to this part of themselves. The reason for this is that even though someone has this ability, it doesn’t mean that they will pay attention to this information.

Therefore, one person could be in tune with this part of themselves and use the information they have been given, and another person could ignore what is knocking at their door, so to speak. There are likely to be a number of reasons as to why someone would listen and another person wouldn’t.

A Number of Factors

When someone has a good connection with their body, it is going to be a lot easier for them to do this; whereas if their attention was generally in their head, this wouldn’t be the case. This comes down to the fact that their mind is likely to discount anything that can’t be proven.

In this sense, the mind is like a scientist and the body is like a sage – the mind needs to find out, but the body just knows. The kind of messages that someone received whilst they were growing up can also have an impact.

Positive Feedback

For example, if one shared their insights with their parents when they were growing up and their parents gave them positive feedback, it would have given them the validation that they needed to continue to develop this connection. If, on the other hand, they were criticised or even abused for being this way, this may have stopped them from being able to do this.

Through feeling as though there was something wrong with them for being this way, it may have caused them to no longer pay attention to this information. Or, it may have slowed down their development.

Another Outlook

Having said all this, there are some people who believe that everyone on the planet has this ability. With this in mind, someone is either going to be in tune with this part of themselves or they are not.

Nevertheless, there is a big difference between someone who gets the odd insight every now and then and someone who is picking up information more or less all the time. This is the difference between knowing a few words in a foreign language and being able to speak fluently.

One Step Further

Now, one’s ability to pick up information without putting in any effort could have a big effect on their life. They may find that it allows them to make better decisions and that it generally stops them from ending up with the wrong people.

In addition to this, they may offer their services to others, meaning that they could offer readings, for instance. This may be something that they do on a regular basis, or it could happen every now and then.

One Experience

The connection that one has could then allow them to lead a fulfilling life; one that is filled with strong connections to others and a life that is full of meaning. Along with this connection, they might also have a strong connection to what it taking place within them.

One will then be in tune with their own emotions and have a healthy relationship with them. What this will do is make it easier for them to define how they will behave, to feel good about themselves, and to attract people who are emotionally healthy, amongst other things.

Another Experience

There is also the chance that someone like this lives a life that is full of pain and suffering. One is then going to have the ability to guide others, but their own life is going to be in a mess.

It can then be hard to understand why someone like this would experience life in this way. One way of looking at this would be so that while one can be born with this ability, developing self-awareness and healing emotional pain is something that takes time and effort.

Diving In

One can live on the surface of themselves and not have to get in touch with how they feel at a deeper level, while being able to pick all kinds of insights. Through carrying all this baggage within them, it is likely to make it hard for them to listen to this guidance.

For example, one could sense that the person they have met is not going to be good for them, but they could still end up with them. What is taking place at an emotional level is then going to override this ability, and one is bound to pay the price as time goes by.


What is taking place at an emotional level and what they believe about themselves is going to need to be looked at. Once they start to get in touch with what is taking place at a deeper level and to work through it, it will be a lot easier for them to listen to themselves.

Yet as their inner world will have changed, they will know longer attract or be attract to the same people. There will also be the effect this has on their ability to behave as they want to behave.


If someone can relate to this, and they want to change their life, they may need to reach out for external support. This can take place with the assistance of a therapist or a healer.

Author's Bio: 

Prolific writer, author, and coach, Oliver JR Cooper, hails from England. His insightful commentary and analysis covers all aspects of human transformation, including love, partnership, self-love, and inner awareness. With over one thousand five hundred in-depth articles highlighting human psychology and behaviour, Oliver offers hope along with his sound advice.

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