Before you proceed to read on this post, please kindly choose an option below:
a. Do you want to know more about lie detecting techniques and accept the fact that there are a lot of liars around you in your daily life?
b. Do you choose to be ignorant and live in bliss?
If your selection is a, continue to read on at your own risk. If your choice is b, you can stop reading now, but do stay tuned to this self empowerment site for more future beneficial articles.
Why we need to learn the techniques of detecting lies?
It is useful for you to learn this technique to differentiate between the truth and the lies and apply it in your everyday life. This technique will prevent us from being a victim of a fraud or scam and even other deception.
Why people lie?
A person lies to get himself out of a difficult or stressful situation or he lies to get some gains out of it, so how should we go about recognize those common indications? Let’s begin…
1. Scratching the neck, throat or mouth
When one tells lies, he will put his cell under pressure and it tends to heat up the whole body. In order to release this heat, the liar will start to scratch his body to release the heat.
2. Avoiding eye contact is another indication of one telling lies.
3. Shaking leg or feet
When one tells a lie, he can control his facial expression because he knows that the other person is looking at his face. When one is totally focused on controlling the upper body, the lower body will get out of control and act upon the sub-conscious mind that leads to the indication of a lie.
4. Gestures/expressions that are contradicting with the verbal statement is also another indication of lies detection. For example, he is crying when saying “I am very happy”.
5. Eye direction
When a specified question is being asked, in normal circumstance, the eye will be looking to the left to recall the pictures in the memory. When one cannot find the answer, the eye will shift to look at the right which indicate that he is constructing something which is usually a lie.
6. A liar is uncomfortable facing the one that is asking the question and tends to turn his body or head away.
Last but not least, don’t assume people are lying without any support concrete evidence.
Be more self empowered by using these lie detection techniques to become a more effective communicator.
“Succeed does not come to you, you have to go to it” Using this philosophy, I decided to create this self help website to push myself to achieve self empowerment and also to motivate all of my friends out there who are reading and staying with me throughout this empowering journey.
More about me…
I am born in the island of Millionaires, guess where? It is Singapore, just a little tiny ret dot in the world but had achieved incredible results in a short 30 years with the highest percentage of millionaires here. Do you want to be a Millionaire? “Of course!” is the reply of most people but how many people can achieve it? You might be telling yourself that all these millionaires are either born with a silver spoon in their month with wealthy parents or just that they are very lucky to be successful. “How lucky they are? How I wish I have what they I have?”
I can tell you here, “You are wrong!” How do you define luck? For me, I will define luck as “LUCK = OPPORTUNITY + ACTION”. So I will always bear this in mind and getting prepared for the opportunity and take massive action when it arises. This will be the mindset of the millionaire.
For me, I might not be a millionaire now, but working progressively towards this goal. “Dream big and take baby steps” is my strategy. My ultimate goal is to achieve personal growth and financial growth. With this strong desire in mind, I am taking action every day to empower myself to change my mindset from a victim to winner one.
Remember this in mind, “You will never FAIL unless you QUIT”.
Do join me in this enriching journey and empower yourself to achieve anything you want in life.