A common question I receive is about whether or not someone may be able to get back with his or her previous other half after this person is the one caused the relationship to go sour in the first place. After some time has passed and they believe they have mended their ways, they wonder if the poor sap they had wronged, will take them back again.

Many times the wrongdoing the party who is interested in hooking back up had done originally was cheat on his or her partner. For instance, a blog entry from a 22 year old girl tells the story of her fiancé breaking it off with her after he found out she had been cheating on him for just about as long as the engaged couple had known one another.

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Two Ex-fiancés at 22 Years Old!

It seems the guy she was "entertaining" from time to time was a guy she had previously been engaged to. I guess this guy wasn't really a big fan of commitment but sleaze was perfectly alright with him. As for her, not to be overly judgmental here; don't you think she might be somewhat morally challenged? I don't know, maybe at 34 I'm just over the hill.

Still, her original question is a valid one. Does she have a chance of getting back with her ex-fiancé now that, she says at least, she is finally, positively and unequivocally through with the low live she was having a good uncommitted time with for oh, let's say about two years? To answer that question I will use a saying which sounds like it originated in the old west: She has two chances, slim and none; and Slim just left town!

Complete Change and Forgives are required

Oh sure, maybe she has really changed. Maybe she's a whole new girl again who has mended her ways. Even if this is the case, I've got to think her newest ex-fiancé would probably have her incessant cheating weigh heavily on his mind for the rest of his life. Or, maybe he is so head-over-heels in love with her and love being blind, he truly can take her back without reservation.

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Herein lies the key: The guy himself is only 22. If he has the capability of putting her cheating totally behind him, there is a chance getting back together could work. However, what so often will happen is anytime anything happens between the two; any little quarrel at all he will bring up the cheating thing. In other words, he will be holding it over her head, maybe forever.

In a situation like this, a relationship hasn't got a chance. Personally, I wouldn't be able to forgive anybody who had so blatantly violated my trust. For this relationship to work, the cheated on partner would have to forget about it entirely. If he can do so, he's a better man than I am a woman. If he's normal however, he's got to run the other way every time this girl gets anywhere near him!

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Breakups are caused by a variety of reasons and if you want to get back with your ex boyfriend you will have to go over each and every possible reason and address it in its entirety. Here are some steps you can take that will make a reunion possible.

Answer why it failed
Take a step back and look at your past relationship dispassionately as a third person would look. You have to find the answer to the question why your relationship failed. There will be many plausible reasons and you have to pinpoint the exact cause.

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Now address the how
Now that you understood why your relationship failed you will have to go over the events of the past few months and see how it eventually failed. This is an important step as your reconciliation will have to be calibrated accordingly. Was there neglect of your boyfriend, were you taking him for granted or were you expecting too much from him. The answers to these and many more questions will show you the way.

Make a list of do's and don'ts
There are lots of things that you will have to do to get him back and many that you will have to consciously avoid. The ones that you have to avoid are being apologetic, looking miserable and appearing needy. The dos will include increasing your self confidence, achieving success, having fun, accepting the breakup and picking up the pieces.

Start immediately
Start by looking fresh and cheerful. Increase your self confidence by looking good and focusing on your academic and professional commitments. Do not procrastinate as your task will get increasingly difficult with each passing week.

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Present a pretty picture
Now start meeting your ex or at least make it a point to be seen by him. Present a pretty picture of yourself as someone that is at peace and having fun.

Get friendly once again
He was once your boyfriend and your lover. It should not be difficult to reconnect with him and make him your friend once again. Do that without wasting any time and begin to spend quality time with him. Remember the key word here is 'Quality Time'.

Confess your desire
As he becomes friendly with you, one fine day drop the bomb on him and confess your love for him. Tell him that you sincerely feel that your relationship deserves a second chance and this time you will make it work. Nine times out of ten he will agree.

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Little did you realize at the time of the break up that your girlfriend is so dear to you! But now that you have split you realize that she means so much and you miss her. Here are some easy ways to get back your ex girlfriend.

Analyze the reason she left you
You need to go over the reason why you two split or the reason why she left you. There must have been something about you that was not appealing to her and now unless you rectify that you may not get her back. So first look into the cause.

Don't act desperate to be taken back
You have to watch it not to act desperate for her to take you back. Instead let her know that you are working on those shortcomings that she didn't like about you. Assure her the next time she sees you, you will be a changed person.

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Give her the time to miss you around
Keep away from her for some time. Make intentional efforts not to come within her range! Yes, if you just unexpectedly bump into her then be casually friendly without throwing yourself at her or pleading and pestering her. Give her a chance to miss you.

Maintain your distance
Maintain your distance by not contacting her on the phone or messaging her at all. Make some distinct efforts in this direction not to come within her reach or sight. She should be able to tell that you are intentionally keeping away so that she too misses you.

Contact her after some time
You would not want to completely keep away from her forever. So it would be well to phone and find out how she is and what's she doing with life these days. You could then ask her to meet for coffee or something since you are around in the vicinity.

Let her know of your progress
While at coffee you could let her know of your progress in life or progress professionally. If she cares for you she will show genuine happiness for your progress. She will miss not being with you to share in your success now.

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Invite her to celebrate
If you noticed her inclination to share in your success then you could invite her to celebrate with you. It would be a good occasion to tell her that you wanted to achieve this success before you approached her to come back to you. This would be the perfect timing to get her back.

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Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here

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