Failure To Success In One Easy Step

By Nick Arrizza MD

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There is one simple step to moving towards a successful life and it has everything to do with permanently erasing the unconscious program that has conditioned you into believing that you are a failure. By erasing this program one can literally start over and create a fulfilling and joyful life. Here’s the vehicle that can help you manifest what you want in your Heart.

The only reason that some people succeed and many more don’t is because of the many negative beliefs they carry within that undermine self confidence, the ability to remain calm, focused, decisive, clear about their goals and purpose, enthusiastic and motivated, resilient, and passionate about what they want.

Those negative beliefs exist firmly anchored in the unconscious mind by the negative memories of past events that serve as the supporting evidence for those beliefs. One such example is a past failure. Another is being told by a significant other that they “will not amount to anything”. Still another, as was my case, being told by a high school English teacher that I would never be successful unless I improved my grammar.

Those negative memories work behind the scenes to thwart one’s plans even before they are launched. That is why, often one’s best made plans seem to have “built in faults” that cause them to unravel and fall apart.

You see, it’s impossible to succeed if you buy into the negative messages those negative memories are trying to convince you of. In other words if you have identified yourself with those messages then that makes you what “they” say it makes you i.e. a failure.

To dis-identify with the negativity one must, out of necessity, purge it from within once and for all. In other words the negative memories must be deleted and/or erased! Now I realize that many of you are wondering what that even implies. This is because many of you have no reference point from which to even consider such an idea.

By erase, I mean simply that. A simple and appropriate metaphor is to erase, using an eraser, something you’ve written on paper with a pencil. Once it is erased you can no longer see it on the page. The page is simply blank.

The same is true when a negative memory is “erased”. Any attempts to “see” it in the mind’s eye will be met with a “white out” effect in which the image and the associated feelings will have completely vanished.

So take a moment and “feel” what that would feel like? Yes, I know that it may be a difficult task. That is why I said earlier that few have a reference of comparison for such an experience. I can tell you however that it is associated with feelings of freedom, joy, hope, optimism, empowerment, and confidence to name a few.

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