Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back, Don't Seek Her Approval. it's common that Guys spend a lot of time pondering and trying to feel out a man to see what type of behavior she will approve of. Then most guys act accordingly hoping to get more acceptances in their relationship. Obviously they think that women will like them and fall in love with them just because they stayed within her boundaries and catered to what she wants. It is hilarious, it is clear to see that these boys wait for cues of permission before attempting or saying anything to their girlfriend or wife. I'm about to give out some shocking advice that brings out the truth. You will need to learn to stop seeking your girlfriend's approval before you do anything to her or for her. Clearly, women hate this. They will not necessarily tell you that they don't feel comfortable with that attitude. When you go ahead to do things without their approval, they keep it in their mind and by the end of the day you will be sure to hear them compliment you. Saying; "You are such a gentle guy. I think you and I can be good friends". Guys, we are meant to be strong, confident, decision makers, and creative men. Not a woman-dependent kind of woman, who can't do no good thing without some boost from the girlfriend. Those kinds of guys wear me out. Women want you to surprise them. Blow their minds, sweep them off their feet. Be a real man. You do not necessarily need your girlfriend's or wife's permission to do the things you plan to do and make the decisions you wish to make. You will notice that she will respect you for your actions. When you go with your girlfriend on a date in a fascinating way. Avoid asking her questions repeatedly especially if she looks like she's having a good time. That's an error a lot of guys make. Act like you are on the date to have a good time, enjoy yourself before you have her in mind. Be smart, active, calm, act like you own the restaurant and don't forget to fill her with your love. Try not to be too concerned with making sure that she is having a good time. When you keep asking whether she is enjoying herself, the more you will seem unstable and unsure of yourself. At that point you can convince yourself that you are a fun loving, but don't get proud. Make sure you focus on communicating with your girlfriend throughout. This will make your ex girlfriend jealous, she sees what she is missing and you are giving it to another girl.