How to Attract My Ex Girlfriend Back Secrets; Most of the time, when you look at a break up from an outsider's perspective, you often get a different view of what might be going on than the people involved in the break up. This can be a good thing, because the reality is that unless a relationship as absolutely horrible, there is almost always a way to patch things up and get back together. Like I said, though, that is not always an easy thing to see when you are one of the ones involved in the break up.

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So, I would like to give you some secrets about getting back an ex girlfriend that you can sometimes only see from an outsider's perspective:

1. She probably doesn't hate you right now, even if she says that is how she feels. You really can't expect a different reaction than for her to say that she "hates" you, but in my experience, that often is not REALLY how she feels. Usually it is just what she says because she doesn't really know how she feels about the break up. She is probably feeling an assortment of emotions and the only way that she can verbally express that is to use the word hate. But that doesn't mean that she really feels that way at all.

2. One of the salves to fixing a broken relationship is to learn to amp up her attraction for you. You've probably seen couples who are intensely attracted to one another who seem to be willing to put up with just about anything from the other person because that intensely strong attraction seems to outweigh everything else. You can use that to your advantage. If you are able to amp up her attraction enough, you can usually make her feel like she will get back with you even if there are still "issues" that need to be addressed.

3. The more thought you put into trying to win her back, the easier the entire process can be. Most men don't think of putting the word "easy" in the same sentence as "getting her back," but it really can be that way if you are willing to put some thought into what you are going to do and say to make her feel that way. The last thing that you should do is to try to approach your ex girlfriend without putting much of any thought into what you are going to say and do, because that usually means that you'll end up saying and doing the wrong things and that doesn't bode well for you if you want to be able to call her your girlfriend again.

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Author's Bio: 

Vanessa Moore is a relationship coach specializing in breakups and dating.

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