How To Deal With A Stubborn Wife: Stubborn Wife Divorce - How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife

There's a certain thing that is destroying marriages and relationships the world over - right now. Perhaps, it's silently working to tear down and destroy even your relationship...

I say silently because it's hidden. No one ever sees it. It's "covered up". In fact, it's covered so well that you'd think it didn't exist...and yet, buried though it may be, it's DRIVING power is persistently having a negative impact on far too many marriages and relationships.

It's a fear - a very specific fear...it is...the fear that your spouse somehow, someway finds you inadequate - that your spouse secretly wants something you can't give them but just doesn't say anything about it to you - or, that your spouse is unfulfilled in you, but doesn't want to tell you for fear of "hurting" you.

Baloney! Garbage! Rubbish! BS!

Friend, here's one of the greatest secrets to success in a marriage or relationship that you can ever grasp...whatever level of inadequacy that other people perceive in you ORIGINATES in YOUR mind.

In other words, if you secretly fear that you are inadequate, then your spouse will subconsciously pick up on that vibration and subconsciously reach the conclusion that you are somehow, someway inadequate.

Conversely, if you maintain a genuine, congruent self-belief that you are fully able and capable of meeting your spouses every need - physically and emotionally - then your spouse will subconsciously pick up on that vibration and WILL ACCEPT IT AS TRUE!

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Regardless of your opinion about them, adult films offer us a very telling demonstration of what I'm talking about here... There are certain adult stars - male and female - who are endowed with (or who have surgically created) the finest specimen's of the human body.

Moreover, these adult stars have learned how to groom and oil and position their bodies in just the right way while making sure the lights are set in only complimentary angles such that by the time the "mere normal person" sees them on film, he or she can easily feel inferior, intimidated, and inadequate in comparison to these stars.

And yet, after watching several of these types of films in a row, you quickly begin to realize that in spite of all these adult stars physical features, you are watching a passionless, meaningless...

...FREAK SHOW!

Sure, they act like they're enjoying "over the top" passion ¬- but, you can tell that it's not real just as surely as you can tell when a toddler is telling you a false "story".

But, if you were to dig around long enough (and I'm not suggesting that you do, I'm just saying if you did) you would eventually find a film where a flat-chested woman and a man with a less-than-average-sized member set aside all the pretending, faking, judging, and evaluating (both of themselves and the other person) and simply focused on confidently giving and receiving as much pleasure as they possibly could.

On the woman's part, she let her SMALL breasts be a source of HUGE pleasure to both herself and to the man.

On the man's part, he let his SMALL member be a source of GIGANTIC pleasure to both himself and to the woman.

The result? Absolutely amazing, truly red-hot sex!

Do you realize...and can you accept...that the physical size or shape of certain body parts - whether on you or on another person - can NEVER give the same level of pleasure as a person who has a full-out, confident mental INTENTION to both give and receive maximum pleasure - regardless of how idyllic or non-idyllic certain body parts are sized or shaped?

Did you fully grasp that last paragraph? I hope so because it contains a key secret to abolishing this hidden fear of inadequacy that so many people suffer from.

In my above illustration, it was both the woman and the man's confident giving of their non-idyllic body parts - the surrendering of them - for the pleasure and enjoyment of both of them that created the real passion.

In thinking and believing that no matter what the size or shape, they could fully give and receive pleasure - they enjoyed exactly that.

And here's the thing...this giving and surrendering is something that any couple - any man and woman - can do.

Let's go a step further so you can really clear this up in your head and get things sorted out in a way that works for you...

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It may be that your spouse has made statements or passing comments about certain physical sizes, shapes, or characteristics that you don't possess. If that's the case, here's what you need to realize...

Your spouse may have PREFERENCES for certain OPTIONS that you don't possess - just as you have preferences for certain options that your spouse may not possess.

Get this... There's a HUGE difference between a PREFERENCE and a REQUIREMENT!

If it was a requirement, your spouse would have either laid that out at the beginning of the relationship or would have never even pursued a relationship with you in the first place.

A preference for a certain size, shape, color, or whatever is just that - a preference. And preferences are optional! If you don't have it, well, no big deal, it was just optional anyway.

So, realizing this, just RELAX! Let go of all your fears of inadequacy.

What's important...what you want to really pay attention to...what you want to focus on are those things that are NOT optional...those things that really are requirements - the giving and receiving of mutual love, respect, appreciation and regular intimacy.

Now, I want to go back and revisit a word I used previously - COMPARISON...

There has never been a game more designed for you to LOSE than the game of comparing one's self to others.

It's such a losing game because when a person compares and then self-judge's themselves as somehow "less" than others, they WITHDRAW or WITHHOLD.

And, in the process of withdrawing and withholding, they block every chance of having the happiness and fulfillment in life they desire. They BLOCK THEMSELVES!

Every time!

Withdrawing and withholding has never served to make anyone happy - ever!

The fact is, there will ALWAYS be someone who has a better shape, size, or characteristic than you. There will ALWAYS be someone who has something you don't have.

So what?

Who cares?

The way for YOU to stop losing and start winning - in every area of your life, especially in relationships - is to confidently step out, to be more forward, and to start giving of yourself - regardless!

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Again, the fear of inadequacy is a SELF-ORIGINATING thought. The antidote is SELF-APPROVAL and SELF-ACCEPTANCE.

Don't look for your worth in the external world. Don't look to other people for approval.

Beating yourself up by comparing yourself to others makes for a hard, painful, unhappy life.

Withholding and withdrawing yourself because you wonder if your spouse views you as inadequate is a sure way to destroy any and all good that happens to remain in your relationship - that you haven't already destroyed.

Realize this...you are an important, talented, and special person. Let that sink in because it's TRUE. You are completely unique.

Some things you're better at then others, some you're not.

Big deal!

There's no need for unnecessary comparison.

Just be the best YOU that you can be.

Sure, develop and grow in those areas where you can. But while you're developing and growing, always, always, ALWAYS be giving of what you have RIGHT NOW so that you can enjoy life to the fullest RIGHT NOW.

And, in the occasional case where the other person continually chooses to reject what you're offering and giving...THAT'S OK! It's OK because that person is just clearing themselves out of the way so that another person - one who wants to appreciate and enjoy what you're offering and giving - can come into your life.

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You can deeply love your wife...

To spend the rest of your life with her can be your greatest desire...

But, if you possess one certain characteristic, you can be assured that two things will happen:

1. Your wife will first check out emotionally

2. Your wife will then leave you for another partner (that she's either already found or will find)

Would you like to know what this one characteristic is so you can avoid it? Yes?

Here it is... Wait... Maybe it's better that you discover it for yourself in the following...

Do you frequently wonder what your wife's true feelings are towards you?

Are you always asking her if she loves you?

And, if she does say that she loves you, do you often doubt that she really means it in her heart?

What about phone calls or letters that she receives? Is it really important to you to know who they are from and what was said?

Do you secretly question if your wife is really committed and true to you?

Are you one who likes lots of reassurance from your wife that everything in your marriage relationship is ok?

Maybe, you want constant confirmation from your wife that she'll always be with you and will never leave you?

And, if something does go wrong in the marriage relationship, do you automatically start wondering if it's over with and thinking that there's no hope?

Stop! Have you already picked up on what the characteristic is?

Here it is in a word...

INSECURITY

And, the bad news is that insecurity never runs by itself...it always drags along its close cousins of CONTROLLING, NEGATIVITY, and SUSPICION.

The insecure man tries to "control" his wife - although he rarely realizes it - even as he interprets everything about her with "suspicion" and injects "negativity" into everything she does.

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That's why I can assert that an insecure man's wife will eventually check out emotionally after which she will physically depart the marriage relationship.

It's a fact...the insecure man IS losing his wife. The only question is how long it will be before she's gone.

You see, a husband's continual insecurity wears on his wife. It grates on her nerves. It emotionally drains her.

See, with all of life's bombardments, one has to work at keeping themselves emotionally healthy. But, when you also have to be an "emotional support system" for another person, it quickly becomes too much...too draining.

At the start of the relationship, although a wife may find it irksome that her husband needs constant reassuring, she'll go ahead and give it to him. But, she quickly reaches a state where she's given out all of her reassurance and she has no reassurance left for herself.

Even worse, she's not getting the reassurance from her husband that she craves... She's always giving out reassurance but never getting anything back in return.

This wife quickly tires of having to constantly reassure an insecure husband. She tires of giving. She tires of trying.

On one hand, she DREAMS of being with a man who causes her to feel alive and exhilarated. On the other hand, she LIVES with a husband whose nagging insecurity leaves her feeling drained and exhausted.

And so, a wife who is married to an insecure man goes through a progression:

1. She starts to view her husband as UNATTRACTIVE. (And the husband starts complaining that his wife's desire for sex is declining.)

2. She progresses to resenting her husband's WEAKNESS. (And the husband becomes even more unhappy because his wife won't hardly have sex at all now.)

3. Finally, she reaches the stage where she literally HATES her husband. (And the husband is really unhappy now because he and his wife virtually never have sex anymore.)

These three steps are the wife's "checking out emotionally" phase that I referred to at the beginning.

And, once she's completed this process of "checking out", she WILL leave. She will leave as a matter of SELF-PRESERVATION - as a matter of protecting her sanity, dignity, and peace-of-mind.

Bottom line, it is a foolish man who expects his wife to understand, support, and hang around to be tormented by his insecurity.

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What exactly constitutes cheating in a marriage? This is one question that different people will give different answers. Most couples in a relationship will think of this question at least once throughout their entire life.

For some people, cheating would be when their partner is hiding some truth from them. For example, if he or she is caught talking, texting or flirting with a person of the opposite sex without telling, that is cheating. Whereas, some will think that cheating is only when you have been physically intimate with another person other than your spouse. When couples have different views on what constitutes cheating, it is likely they will have a big fight arguing who is right or wrong.

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It is important that you and your partner have to conclude what is cheating in a marriage. If you or your partner has made it clear that flirting is not acceptable, both of you will have to come out with an agreeable plan that will not hurt each other's feeling.

Sometimes, couples are reluctant to make sacrifices like this because they do not want to be controlled in any ways by their partner. More often, couples always use the wrong way to deal with the problems in their relationship. When problems get into their way, they think negatively that it is difficult to repair the pain. What should you do to come out with a compromise plan that will not hurt your relationship?

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When you are struggling to save your marriage and your wife is not interested to do so, you start to wonder "Can I still save my marriage alone?"

It is possible to save your marriage even if your wife is not interested. As long as you are fixing the problems in the relationship with the right methods and avoid the unwanted ones, your chance of saving back the marriage is quite high.

How can you save your marriage if your wife is not interested?

Accept the problems in your marriage
Most people will be very shocked and depressed when there are problems in the marriage. They become emotional and often do unwanted actions to save their marriage. If your wife is not showing interest to work on the marriage, never try to force her because this will only push your wife further away from you. Give her some space and time to cool down.

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Be willing to change yourself
If you want to know how you can make your wife love you again, you need to be willing to change yourself. Think of what she hated about you the most now and bring back the man that she used to love. Act upon the things that your wife has told you and once she feels that you have changed, you will start to see positive responds from her.

Treat her with respect
You are now in a situation of saving your marriage alone, so in order to win her heart back, you must regain back her respect and trust. It is to really listen to what she wants. If she says she wants some space from you, then just give it to her.

Saying or doing the wrong thing can actually cause your spouse to feel even more distant from you. You can make your spouse fall back in love with you, all over again.

You don't have to worry about whether your spouse is on the brink of asking you for a divorce. You can control the situation and use specific techniques to naturally make them fall hopelessly in love with you.

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