Have you ever had one of those days when things seem to go wrong instead of right?
Perhaps a conversation you wanted to have doesnât go the way you intended, or an event gets rained out or doesnât happen the way you expected, or you are stuck in traffic and youâre going to be late, or the dinner party you organized doesnât work out the way you thought, or things didnât go well with your boss, partner, friend or family member, or your trip was postponed, etc.
A lot of things can seem to go wrong in life and itâs up to you to make them right.
As the saying goes, âWhen life hands you lemons, make lemonadeâ.
We can pout or smile, we can be angry or peaceful, we can be sad or happy, we can be disappointed or content, we can be hurt or whole, we can be bitter or sweet.
Things work out the way they do and itâs your responsibility to make the best or worst of the situations that occur.
If there is a 50 to 50 chance things can go wrong, then there also must be a 50 to 50 chance things can go right.
It has everything to do with our interpretation, perception, and attitude towards things that go wrong that offer us an opportunity to make things right.
Roadways have twists and turns, ups and downs, stops and starts, road blocks and detours that you maneuver through.
The road of life isnât much different; you can steer yourself out of wrong thinking into right thinking any time you choose.
If you are driving and the road is closed, you wouldnât drive through the barricade or continue to stay there waiting for the road to re-open as you might be sitting there for quite some time. You would follow the detour signs until you are back on the right road again.
When you drive your car, you can go just about anywhere you choose. When things go wrong you also have the same ability to steer yourself right.
Days that donât go your way are offering you another route, so to speak - a choice of how to move through whatâs occurring, not just by-pass it.
Recognize which road your thoughts are leading you down. Is it a dead-end mindset or an , open-minded one?
You can realign and adjust your thinking and attitude from things not working out to what possibilities are now being presented. Staying stuck or moving forward, itâs your choice.
How can you change when things go wrong to things going right? By making it so for you.
1.Ask. What can YOU do in the situation that can turn things around for you.
2.Listen. Be open to receive direction as to what that may be.
3.Allow. Let yourself do what is being whispered or shown.
Most people are really good about following numbers one and two, then they resist, instead of allow, as in number three.
What changes things from wrong to right is your thinking towards it. Recognizing whether you are in misalignment or alignment is key.
When you adjust your way of thinking or being, you may find yourself resorting back to your old tactics. Thatâs normal. Have patience with yourself. Itâs hard to teach an old dog new tricks, but it is possible.
If you are open to change, it can occur. When you become more aware of whatâs going wrong for you, then you can begin to make them right for you.
The key words being, âright for youâ. You canât make things right for someone else; you can offer assistance, but you canât make it right for them. You can only do that for you, and only if you choose to.
You can stay stuck in negative thinking when things donât work out, or you can shift gears and direction.
If you choose to let something that has occurred to be wrong, then you can also choose what has occurred to make things right again for you.
When something doesnât work out and we react to that person or situation, there is a lesson calling our name to be learned. Itâs time to take out our manual and do a little repairing and fine tuning.
Wouldnât it be great if we could wear a sign saying âlearnerâs permit, have patienceâ when we are learning to something new?
You can remind yourself that when things go wrong you can make them right and that you may have your beginners license for awhile. Thatâs a great place to start.
The Insight Technique assists you in seeing how you can turn something going wrong into something going right.
Kimberley Cohen is the Founder, Facilitator and Personal Insight Coach of The Insight Technique™. She is certified in Body Mind Counselling, Process Oriented Body Work and Spiritual Psychotherapy. She founded the Insight Technique™ - Your Insight to genuine Happiness, Purpose and Prosperity to assist herself and others in uncovering and discovering their brilliance. To question and understand your thinking so you can transform what blocks and limits you from living the life you desire and deserve. Or "living your dreams".