Sometimes when a couple is married for a while some of the foreplay time goes out the window. Maybe you’re busy with work or kids, but you should never let your love life dwindle. “Quickies” are great sometime, but it’s important to focus on arousing your wife as well. If you would like to know how to arouse your wife, simply think back to the things that turned her on when you were first together. Some things change, but chances are is she liked something you were doing then, she’s still going to enjoy it now.

There are many different things you can do to arouse your wife, and a sensual erotic massage is one of the major ones. Who wouldn’t love a relaxing massage, especially while naked and uninhibited with the person you love. Being vulnerable in front of one another can really strengthen your bond as a couple, and allow you to learn more about your partner, and yourself as well.

The massage should start with the person performing the massage sitting or standing between the woman’s legs, while they gently draw their fingertips up above the thighs and vaginal lips. The woman will begin to feel more and more pleasure as the masseuse begins to explore and discover every inch of her, through the wide range of stroke and gentle movements of the hands during the course of the erotic massage. The woman and her partner will discover new ways to feel love for each other as they explore the intimacy of their relationship through female erotic massage.

Ancient sensual texts remind us that it is important to understand that a female erotic massage is not only for pleasure, but it also has several health benefits for the woman, including stress-reduction. If your wife or girlfriend has suffered through a long, hard day at work there’s probably nothing that will make them feel better and melt away the stress fast than an erotic massage. An erotic massage can decrease stress greatly and leave your body over whelmed with feelings of well-being and pleasure. Another added benefit is that most doctors will tell you this is a great way to help heal the human body and the body heals much faster when it is happy, as opposed to when it is depressed, stressed out, or sad. Giving your partner an erotic massage will show her just how much you love and care about her.

Author's Bio: 

Maya Silverman is an expert on the ' Power of Sensual Touch'. She enjoys sharing her expert knowledge on Erotic, Sensual and Tantric massage practices to increase pleasure, sensuality, satisfaction and intimacy in your relationship. Claim your 2 Free Gifts : A 5 Part eCourse 'Food, Great Sexual Health and Erotic Massage' plus the eBook: 'How to Creating a Sizzling Sensual Massage Experience - Setting the Scene' instantly at =>