How-To Advice on Adding Passion to your Love Relationship

By Nanette Geiger

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach writes... ...

Peter from Florida asks: How can I super charge my romance? How can I improve my current relationship?

Thank you, Peter. It's wonderful that a lovely gentleman is asking this question..You see gals, there are lots of romantics out there. I got one, and so did Peter's beloved.

Over time, it appears that the passion or thrill has decreased. We can restimulate and recreate the passion. Believe it or not, it's more a matter of choice and intentionality.When we choose to become purposeful and focused on an outcome, we can see shifts in a matter of moments.

In the day to day routine of life, we all need to take a moment and prioritize what's important. You're right to be asking about how to improve your current love relationship because having a wonderful, thriving, loving relationship is foundational to the rest of the areas of your life.

Energy goes where your attention flows. So what you focus on will expand; you'll get more of what you're focusing on. So it's of high importance that if you want an improvement in your love life, then you have to shift focus and start looking for things in your mate that you appreciate. Look for things in your relationship that are working really well. Spend moments every day musing about what was once delightful so you can re-create more of that.

Make lists and lists of what you love, appreciate, and enjoy about your relationship, either by looking at the past, or imagining the future. Remember, it's ok to ask for love relationship advice. Do you best to stay away from focusing on the elements that don't work so well. You'd rather have what you want, not more of what you DON'T want.

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