There’s a question that I’m asked on an almost daily basis on my blog. It’s asked by women and it typically follows a rather painful break up. “I think my ex boyfriend is seeing someone else. What should I do?” You may be asking it too now that you’ve realized that your ex has moved on and is enjoying the company of another woman. I know it’s painful. I’ve been where you are now. For me, my discovery came when I saw the two of them together at a coffee shop that I frequented. I stood still, time stopped and my heart sank. He looked happy, she looked attractive and I felt inadequate and lost. I didn’t want it to be happening. I just wanted time to rewind back to when he looked at me the way he was looking at her. That, obviously, wasn’t possible.
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Don’t Let Jealousy Over His New Girlfriend Get the Best of You
Immediately, my first thought, when I realized my ex boyfriend had started dating was to find fault with her. I imagined that if I could dig up some dirt on her I’d be able to present it to him, he’d dump her and magically realize I was the woman for him. It seems illogical looking back on it now but, at the time, I thought it was the most ingenious plan ever concocted. I must have spent hours online trying to find anything I could on her. There was nothing. I asked friends if they knew anything about her. No one did. I eventually realized that I was obsessing over a woman I didn’t even know. She was just a woman who happened to find my ex boyfriend as appealing as I did.
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Acceptance is really the key to being able to deal with your ex boyfriend’s new relationship in a productive manner. Until you can fully accept that he’s left you behind and moved on, you won’t be able to forge a plan to get him to want you instead of her. By staying in a place of oblivion you are wasting precious moments. You can actually use your ex boyfriend’s new relationship to your advantage. I know that sounds ludicrous, but human emotions are an interesting thing and once you understand exactly what is going on within your ex boyfriend, you can then use that insight to your full advantage.
The man is expecting you to react in one of two ways when you discover that he’s hooked up with someone new. He thinks you’re either going to fall apart emotionally and beg him to dump her and come back or he believes you’ll retaliate by trying to make him jealous with a new guy. Does either of these options sound all that interesting to you? They certainly don’t to me.
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The Best Thing You Can Do When Your Ex Boyfriend is Seeing Someone Else
Here’s where the third (and best) option comes into play. You’re going to act as though it doesn’t matter either way that he’s gotten himself into another relationship so soon. I know that sounds incredibly difficult to do since you do care. You care so much! But if you allow him to see how torn up you are by his decision to date his new girlfriend, you are handing all of your emotional power to him. He doesn’t want it and he’ll neglect it.
Don’t react when he talks about her other than to say how great she sounds. If he asks you to meet for coffee or dinner, suggest that she come along. This will demonstrate to both of them that you don’t feel threatened at all by her or their relationship.
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If you appear to be the one rising above any petty dramatics that could occur, you come out on top. He’ll see you as someone who is mature and able to handle her emotions in a balanced and effortless way. He’ll think about that the next time he argues with the new girl.
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If you just found out your ex lover is casually seeing other people again do you know what to do about it? You must not panic right now because these other people your ex is dating is going to help you get back together. I know this is a little confusing but i am going to teach you how to make your ex fall in love with you again even if they are dating someone different every day of the week.
Your ex may be sitting down with their rebound relationship or with their date and start to think of you because the past relationship and all the history you have together. The person your ex is with does not have a past relationship or history together like you and your ex have. If they have history with your ex it does not mean anything because your history is more recent then theirs.
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You can not let it bother you if you find out that your ex partner decides to start dating other people right after the break up This is a rebound relationship and 90% of the time rebound relationships do not work out in the end. Your ex partner is getting into a rebound relationship or dating other people so they can get over you, they do not want to be alone, or they just need to be with someone.
The reason why rebound relationships do not last is because your ex boyfriend or your ex girlfriend is still trying to get over your past relationship. When your ex boyfriend or your ex girlfriend is dating someone else they are still thinking about you and this makes your ex pay less attention to the new relationship they are in. The person your ex boyfriend or your ex girlfriend is dating is also not focusing on the relationship they have together. They are trying to get your ex partner to stop thinking about the past relationship you had together. Now your ex and this other person are not focused on their relationship at all. This is why the rebound relationship will not work out and eventually fail.
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When your ex boyfriend or your ex girlfriend no longer feels like they need to be dating to help them get over you then your ex will end the rebound relationship. The reason your ex wanted to rush into a relationship right away is because they are still trying to get over you and need extra help. After the person your ex partner is dating has helped them get over the break up your ex will no longer need them anymore and your ex will break up with them.
It is really important that you stay supportive while your ex lover is spending a lot of time with the opposite sex. You definitely do not want to have your ex partner think you are pissed off because they have decided to get into another relationship with someone else. As long as your ex knows you are supportive of them while they are casually dating other people they will be more willing to give you information on how their new relationships or dates are going.
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You can get your ex partner to tell you all about the rebound relationship if your ex feels like you are not against them being with someone else. If your ex feels like you do not have a problem with them dating other people they will keep talking to you while they are in the relationship. if something goes bad in the rebound relationship your ex lover will tell you all about it since you have been friends with them this hole time. When the time comes the rebound relationship begins to fall apart your ex boyfriend or your ex girlfriend will come back to you for support or maybe even ask for you to commit to them again.
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Is there any feeling that hurt you more than seeing the one you loved leave you? I think it is more nerve pressing to see your ex boyfriend whom you love with another girl. Many women out there say "I want my ex back but he's with someone else" but unfortunately can't figure out what it takes to get back their boyfriends.
The first thing you have to do is to make sure you want your ex back. If you just want him to get back to you to take your revenge or to pay back at him then this advice is not for you. Be sure you want him for the good reasons or this will be very bad for you and him.
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Do not jump into false assumption that he doesn't want you back because he is now with someone else. Men usually feel unsafe and less proud so they need to compensate. Compensating for lost confidence or pride comes usually in the form of dating any girl to prove to themselves and to people that they are still attractive to the other sex. Do not be fooled because this is a typical masculine behavior.
Sometimes you might feel you want to strangle this new woman to death but you have to remain calm, be confident and act indifferent. If he sees that you are desperate to get him back or that you act clingy and look needy for him he will be pushed away from you. Be gentle with your ex, remind him of the good things in you but do not show him more interest or longing. Act like a confident woman who has a lot o f interests and activities and show him that you are ready to move on and live normally.
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Remember that his new relationship with this woman is a rebound relationship. It is known that rebound relationship have very weak chances of success. So you must show him that you wish good luck in his new relationship. Tell him she's cute and lovely then he will stop being cautious with you about his new relationship. Act like a close friend and let him pour his heart to you. If he knows that you are not jealous from his new girlfriend he will begin to trust you again and will talk to you more about his personal life. This way you will be closer to his heart and you are then closer to get him back again.
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Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here
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