If what you think is what you create for yourself, then only think about the positives. If everyone would take responsibility for their own lives then the world would be a much better place.

The problem is most of us are from dysfunctional families. We each have our own issues and challenges unique from everyone else. Our thoughts stems from our upbringing and life experiences and goes out from there.

Life is truly about what you came here to learn. Instead of blaming others for your problems, analyze your own challenges...figure out from there what you need to learn, already learned, forgive, forget, and then move on. Holding on to pain and loss only creates more pain and loss within yourself.

So many people are stuck in blaming others for their own misfortunes. For example, maybe your thoughts are, "If only my mother was different, I would be better...If my childhood was different, I would be better..if I went to college, I would have a better job if my father didn't leave I would be a better man...this list can go on forever. I think you get my point.

The ONLY person you need to know more than anyone in your life is yourself. Your whole life stems from you and your thoughts. What you think and believe is what you create for yourself. Most of us easily blame others for our own sadness, lack of relationships, lack of employment. So many of us don't take responsibility for their lives...instead they blame everyone else for their problems.

Ever notice how different each child is within their own family even if they were all raised by the same parents? That is because each of us has our own destiny and lessons to learn for their own soul growth. This also applies to relationships. Ever notice how different you are with every person you relate with? Each person you meet brings out different parts of yourself.

It's about soul growth. It's the meaning of life. No one here is more special than anyone else yet people are groupies, and idolize others instead of idolizing themselves.God does not challenge you or condemn you, it's the universal laws that are control of that. Whether you believe this concept or not...take time to notice and be aware and you will see this for yourself.No one gets away with anything. It's the law of Karma......what goes around comes around.

For instance if you cheat others, you cheat yourself...if you lie to others, you are lying to yourself...if you steal from others, you are stealing from yourself. This is a very powerful concept.

If you find yourself having a difficult time finding your true love think about what you are thinking. If you believe all men are cheaters, than you will attract men who cheat. If you think all women are immature, than you will attract immature women. A mirror reflection would be if you only attract unavailable men or women than your are not ready to make a commitment.

When someone comes into your life, step back and really see that person because that person is just a reflection of you. This can be any person, not just a love relationship. If you don't like what you see, step back and ask yourself, "what is it about myself that needs to change so my outside changes." Then bless that person and move on.

Everyone in life is meant for a special purpose. If you are unemployed think of it as a change for something better even if it doesn't appear that way at the moment. Millions of people would tell you otherwise...they would find something negative about the situation.

If you understand this concept then it would make more sense to you that empowering thoughts would change yourself, your life, and the world would be a much better place. This is the school of life.. change yourself, change your life, change the world.

"Revolutionary change points to a time when chaos arises from order. It is important to realize that not all order is good, not all chaos bad. Chaos, in fact, is an integral part of the way of things - as any parent (and modern science) will confirm. Have the courage to radically change and renew the way you present yourself. In this way, you can summon chaos to your cause, and you will unleash a new power on your behalf. If engaging in a negotiation, change the rules; if composing a piece of music, add the unexpected; if courting a lover, dare to be unconventional. In periods of drought, even wild storms are preferable to yet another sunny day."

Author's Bio: 

Maxine has been on her own spiritual path since age six, when she started to realize she could see and understand the beyond. She has been seeing and communicating with spirits and channeling messages for years.

She learned meditation skills and expanded her psychic awareness during the 1980's. She spent most of her time counseling friends and others, knowing that was her spiritual path.

She found that many people have unanswered questions, unresolved issues, and live in fear of the unknown. Her destiny is to assist and guide these people.

Maxine has a special gift helping people with emotional difficulties. She has found that highly emotional people have a unique path, and once they find it, they are able to live lives full of love and happiness.

Maxine uses her spiritual gift to coach and assist people worldwide.

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