My Ex Is Already Dating, How Can I Get My Ex Back?

This question get repeated a lot of the times and more often then not it’s the first question people ask after the break up.

“Can I get my ex back if my ex is already dating?”

I don't want to stall here – YES, you can get your ex back even if he or she is already dating someone new. Will it be more difficult to get your ex back than it would be if he or she was single? Depends.

Here's why. Now I don't know why you and your ex broke it off, but what ever the reason you still have a great chance to win your ex back. As people we're more prone to be around people we know better, things are simpler that way, seem more natural. Same goes for your ex.

If it's s an ex girlfriend she will feel much more confident with you who already saw her naked than whit a guy who she just started seeing. If you want your ex boyfriend back, he'll also feel a lot less pressure when getting back to the familiar turf.

The fact that you want your ex back and he or she is already dating doesn't mean that your ex is over you. It just means that your ex is having a rebound relationship. And in 95% of the cases, those tend end after 2-3 months.

Your ex is probably in a hurry to get over you and is not clear on what he or she feels. But is for sure not looking for that someone special, just someone who he (or she) can project his (or hers) feeling he has for you.

What you can do to accelerate the process and get your ex back is to give your ex some space in a new relationship. I know it's exactly the opposite of what you have a need to do, but her me out:

- You can't make your ex change his mind – not about your or the other person

- You can take it with dignity

- You can make your ex miss you

What you need to do in order to get your ex back (and if she or she is seeing someone else) is give them time to fall apart naturally, let your ex miss you, keep the contact to a minimum and be very friendly when you meet them together.

Say hi how are you, nice running into you and walk away?

Don't make a scene or plead or beg.

Your ex will want to get back at you once he or she realizes true feelings he or she has for you. Also towards the other person in the picture. And if the new relationship doesn't go well (like I sad in 95%of the cases) your ex will start to miss what you had.

You'll get your ex back by being patient and giving them some time.