Permanently Eliminate Negative Thoughts That Lead to Self Sabotage

By Nick Arrizza M.D.

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Self sabotage occurs because of unconsciously buried beliefs about one’s self such as: I am a bad person, I am undeserving of success, I am a loser, if I succeed I will be hurting others, others will be angry with or envious of me if I succeed, it is safer to keep my talents hidden etc. The self sabotaging individual is often unaware of these underlying beliefs that “pull the strings” in their life. Now there is a way to not only make these negative beliefs conscious but also to eradicate them for ever.

Where do you think one picks up such negative beliefs/thoughts? Well from one’s conditioned past! A prime example might be from an incident where a person’s success threatened the pride or “ego” of say a parent. In order to secure that parent’s love the individual made a fear based decision to forfeit their own success for this greater gain. The unfortunate aspect of this is that they then become “programmed” or “conditioned” to do the same in future scenarios.

As you can see from the above example this creates the familiar “people pleaser” whose actions are repeatedly undermining them as they try desperately to get everyone else’s attention and appreciation. Clearly this is a self sabotaging pattern par excellence!

So if you’re are beginning to get the picture of how such self sabotaging programming is generated you will also begin to recognize that in order to permanently diffuse it one must not only eradicate the negative conditioned beliefs but most importantly the negative memories that are stored unconsciously which generate them.

Psychotherapy, hypnosis, NLP, EFT, EMDR or any other modality I know of will not do this. Why? Well for a simple reason. To permanently eradicate those negative memories means that they must be erased completely and permanently. This implies that the individual in question must be unable to ever get back to the memory in question. In other words all traces of it ever having happened must cease to exist in the person’s conscious or unconscious mind.

Any thing short of this will mean that remnants of the memory will re-sprout the negative beliefs much like the root of a weed re-grows into the full weed. If you have ever experienced any of the other modalities I mentioned above you you’ll know that the results they yield are often temporary for the reason I just gave. As a former psychiatrist of over 15 years who once practiced many of these other modalities I can attest first hand that this was my experience with them.

There is a new coaching process that is now able to erase these negative memories along with their corresponding negative thoughts permanently. To learn more about this process kindly visit the web site below where you can also request a free introductory telephone consultation.