As we age our bodies change and begin to reveal the ill affects of stress and any less than healthy living habits we may have developed. We lose flexibility both physically and mentally and we may find we are less responsive to pleasure of all kinds. Our bodies no longer respond the way they did when we were younger and/or physical ailments and restrictions may make engaging in physical activity, sexual or otherwise, uncomfortable or embarrassing.
Sensual Massage can be the perfect therapy for aging men and women. It can greatly improve and enhance the quality of intimacy and sexual activity between couples. Mature men and women in the 20th century can learn from the teachings and practices used for centuries, such as the Kama Sutra and Tantra massage. Using these techniques and teachings can open doors that many couples may have thought were closed.
By engaging in erotic sensual massage, rather than pursuing goal oriented sexual activity sought in youth, aging men and women are rewarded ten fold. Erotic massage is a far more meaningful experience than traditional sexual endeavors allowing the development of heightened spiritual and emotional intimacy.
Sensual erotic massage is relaxing, invigorating and life enhancing. It need not culminate in orgasm but should be approached as an experience of intimacy that goes far beyond the usual sexual climax. Taking all the time you need and want to pleasure each other through massage of all types will enrich you physically and emotionally. By relaxing together quietly and participating in the sharing of full body massage, you can begin to rekindle the trust and bond that may have grown weak through years of neglect.
Set aside the expectations you may be carrying from the past and let yourselves be nurtured and loved in the present through sensual massage without expectation. You may find your sexual energy returning but if you do not you will still experience a far greater pleasure of intimacy and union with your partner.
The sexual act including orgasm has always been viewed as the path to intimacy and yet, more often than not, it is actually the opposite. It becomes instead the focal point at the expense of all that goes before. Erotic foreplay and massage can improve a relationship to a far greater degree than the single act of orgasm. As we age we are gifted with a greater understanding of this deeper level of intimacy and pleasure. We can drop the expectations and indulge each other in spiritual touch.
Erotic massage is a far more gentle approach to physical intimacy and therefore can be engaged in regardless of physical health and flexibility. It is not demanding or strenuous and often leaves both giver and receiver feeling more whole and invigorated. It actually improves circulation and blood flow which can improve flexibility.
Erotic massage has healing properties both emotional and physical. You will feel invigorated, restored and renewed and your relationship with your partner deepened.
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