Shyness To Charisma In One Easy Step

By Nick Arrizza M.D.

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Is it possible to permanently eliminate shyness from one’s life in such a way that one will not even remember that they were ever shy? Absolutely! To do so however requires a measure of courage and desire.

What is shyness?

Well in a nutshell it is a conditioned emotional program that constricts and restricts the full natural charismatic expression of an individual. It is conditioned into and stored in the unconscious mind of the individual by various negative beliefs and emotions such as:

1. I am shy.
2. I’m afraid of making a fool of myself.
3. I can never think of what to say when I’m with others.
4. I’m afraid others will not like me.
5. I’m afraid others will reject me.
6. I’m a loser.
7. I’m defective and/or deficient.
8. There’s something wrong with me.
9. I have inherited my shyness

And so on.

All of these are generated, supported and justified at the unconscious level of the mind by negative memories of early life that in any way disrupted a normal and smooth connection with others. These include memories of humiliation, rejection, embarrassment, inappropriate intimate interactions and so on.

Once the memories get recorded in the person’s mind/body they literally “define” them i.e. they program the person to believe that this is who and what they are. Once defined the ability to shuck this definition seems almost impossible.

What’s interesting is that these negative beliefs and emotions behave like internal hypnotic suggestions that limit the person. You’ve likely seen or heard of shy individuals who were able to be quite gregarious when placed in a hypnotic trance. This is possible because the externally supplied suggestions are able to temporarily over-ride the internal ones thereby allowing a measure of freedom of expression.

The key however is that the effect is temporary. Temporary because the negative memories generating the internal hypnotic suggestions remain firmly ensconced and pervasively producing the internal suggestions that erode away at the external suggestions thereby re-imprisoning the person.

The only real way to permanently free one’s self from this enslavement is to erase the negative memories and their accompanying beliefs and emotions for forever. This is done easily with a new coaching process that you can learn more about at the web site below. There you can also request a free introductory telephone consultation to get you started on your journey to full charismatic self expression and empowerment.