The True American Dream, A Prototype of the 21st Century Way of Life

By Phillipe Sudibya

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THE PROBLEM

These are the facts about True Love and American Dream:

1. Most people in America believe that they understand the meaning of True Love, but in reality, more than 50 % do not understand it. The proof? The divorce rate in America is more than 50 %.

2. It is the media to be blamed. The media (movies, books, radios, tv, magazines, newspapers) confuses people with the wrong meanings of True Love and American Dream. ”I think I have found my True Love”, or “I fell in love with her at first sight”. Even Jane Burns understands, in the movie ‘Dan in Real Life’:”Dad, love is not a feeling, it’s an ability”. True Love is not a thing or a person; it’s a divine concept of living. Only from living it (an ability), can we truly enjoy the power of it (a divine feeling). And ultimately, becomes a Force.

3. Why do people in this world, between friends, lovers, families, neighbors, countries, have fights/ quarrels/ conflicts/ disagreements/ divorces/ wars today? The answer/ logic? Very simple and only one: they have different visions of love. In fact, everybody has his/ her own understanding of love, and everybody thinks that she/ he is right, that’s why there will always be fights/ disagreements between them.

4. The same way people have different visions of True Love, they also have different views/ definitions of the American Dream. For the past 2 hundred years, people in America have had many definitions of happiness, reflected by the many interpretations of the American Dream. Success from hard work. Financial security. Material comfort. Fame. American capitalism. Immigrants. Economic prosperity. Religious freedom.

5. Then again, why is it that some people have all the possessions in the world, yet they remain unhappy? Why is America the wealthiest, most advanced and most powerful country in the world, but it is also the unrivaled leader in divorce rate? Two logical explanations. One, what we previously aim as our American Dream never provides us the highest altitude of happiness. In fact, the preceding concepts of the American Dream claim to be bigger, from one to the other, for every one of them was never defined to be the ultimate meaning, for the others, not to refute, or challenge, its supremacy. Two, the prior meanings/ pursuits of the American Dream have focused on the Outer Shell of things, or the Worldly Belongings, whose enjoyment is only temporary.

6. How can there have been many (meanings of) American Dreams? Because the meaning of love has been believed to be many. But the meaning of the “True” American Dream? From our website/ foundation/ answers to you, I can prove to you, that by logic, there can be only one ultimate meaning of the American Dream, there can be only one True American Dream: a life based on the ultimate meaning of True Love, just as there is only one True concept of Love, the greatest of all, greater than everything else in the world.

THE SOLUTION

The goals of the True American Dream, a Universal Code for living:

1. We will answer any questions you have, if you encounter any disagreements/ fights/ problems with your friends/ lovers/ families, in every aspect of your life, so you will accomplish every goal below. The key to unity, no fights, no quarrels, the highest level of happiness, the world’s unity and lovers’ perfect harmony: one vision of True Love. A universal truth/ rule: one vision of love unites and strengthens (makes people go to the same direction), while many visions divide (break people apart, make them go to different directions, or make them fight/ have disagreements).

2. Because by logic, there are no 2587 meanings of love or True Love. There can only be one meaning of True Love. In the beginning, God created a perfect concept called True Love as a manual for humans to live a truly happy life, for the use in finding and enjoying their divine state: as happy, as complete, and as powerful as God. Yet humans are lured into believing that another concept, called Self-Love, or Selfishness, would bring a higher happiness, or a more powerful state. In reality, the Devil, or the Fallen Angels, invented that Self-Love notion, to steal us from the very joy of life, whereas the end result is, we are tricked. Less power for us. Giving us a weaker foundation. Sadness, confusions, stresses, problems, loneliness, hate, jealousy, fights, violence, wars, etc. The derivatives of selfishness.

3. Once you and your friends/ lovers/ families have the same one vision of True Love, then you would never have to worry about having conflicts, fights, quarrels, with anyone, ever again. Consequently, the highest level of being in love is yours for the taking.

4. Total enjoyment, and mastering all kinds of relationship: between a man and a woman, between parents and their children, between a human (creation) and God (its creator), and between a person and others (the world). Enjoyment comes not only from the beauty, but also the blessings.

5. To live like God: reaching our highest senses (the highest altitude of feeling in love), utilizing our in-born Godliness, and enjoying the benefits of being like God.

6. To create more awareness about the Power and Benefits of True Love: as happy, as strong, as complete, and as powerful as God.

7. To build more happiness, contentment, a sense of purpose and direction in marriages, professions, actions, decisions, and in lives.

8. To form a stronger and happier next generation (our future children), and consequently, a happier world and a better place to live in

9. All of the above makes up the perfect enjoyment and true richness in life, our wholeness as human beings, or the Heavenly Possessions.