The Key Principle To Self Control And Self Confidence

By Nick Arrizza M.D.

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Poor Self Control feeds low Self Confidence and low Self Confidence also leads to poor Self Control. So where did this merry go round start and how does one get off? The answer will not only surprise you it will permanently begin to transform you.

Suppose you are attempting to walk a straight line and that along both sides of that line were a row of individuals whose task it was to push you sideways as you went by so that you couldn't stay a straight course. Would you feel confident in your ability to make it to your planned destination? Would you feel like you had a sense of control over your situation? The answer is likely "no" on both counts.

Now let me shift from this metaphor to your actual situation. What exactly is throwing your self confidence out of balance? Well if you contemplate that question a while you may come to the realization that the problem is an internal emotional one that is rooted in your past. For instance how many times have you attempted to accomplish something only to come up short? How did those failed attempts leave you feeling?

Well the answer to that one is easy, like a failure. Aren't those the feelings and memories that come back to haunt you each and every time you want to try something new? Can you see how they are responsible for undermining your self confidence?

If you notice carefully they also seem to have a life of their own. In other words they erupt whenever "they" want to and that's like saying you have little or no control over them. So what does that do to any degree of self control you may have? Well it makes the idea of self control almost laughable.

So here is the KEY PRINCIPLE TO RECLAIMING SELF CONTROL & SELF CONFIDENCE:

It becomes essential to erase those negative feelings and memories from within you once and for all so that you and not they have the ultimate say over who is in charge of your mind and life.

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