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- Can You Blame “The Other Sex” for Your Failed Relationships? - by Submitted on May 18, 2012 from Doron GilIf you have been trying for a long time now to have a satisfying intimacy and didn’t succeed, it is very likely that you fail due to lack of Self-Awareness: you don’t understand how you shoot yourself in the foot. Developing Self-Awareness will enable you to realize a host of factors which drive ...
Views: 38 - Using “Stay-Over Relationships” to Find a Partner & Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on May 14, 2012 from Doron GilA “new trend” in dating is on the rise: “THE STAY-OVER RELATIONSHIP”. Men & women pack up their bag and “move in” with their date (“partner”) for two or three days. If you are taking part in this new trend you can make use of your “stay-over relationships” for your personal growth and ...
Views: 73 - Getting to Know Yourself is the Best Way to Succeed in Developing a Satisfying Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on May 03, 2012 from Doron GilIf you are single and on the dating scene wishing to find a partner with whom to develop a successful relationship, you have probably listened to and practiced many dating-tips you read in advice columns, found on the internet and received from friends, such as: * Write the perfect profile * ...
Views: 84 - Does Your Anxiety Drive You to Sabotage Your Relationships? Learn to De-activate its Power - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Doron GilYOUR ANXIETY WORKS AGAINST YOU! If you have been wishing for quite some time now to have a stable, successful, satisfying relationship but are finding yourself time and again with the wrong partners and in unsatisfying relationships, what does it mean? Could it really be that “all these men” ...
Views: 79(1 vote) - Don’t Let Your Belief-System Hurt You & Sabotage Your Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 18, 2012 from Doron GilIt is being said that having a belief-system is good: it is something which directs you; guides your actions; motivates you to know how to go about feel you know how to move forward with life. But if your belief-system controls your attitudes and behviors without you being aware of it, you are ...
Views: 89 - Become Aware of Your Perception of Reality: Don’t Let it Harm Your Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2012 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION You and your partner react and behave in your relationship each from your own Perception of Reality – your personal view point of how things “should be”. Your perceptions are affected by many factors you have internalized over the years while growing up. As long as you are NOT ...
Views: 103 - Still Single? Stop Justifying Your Failures! Gain Self-Awareness and Develop a Successful Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2012 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION If you have been failing in your relationships time and again, you might have resorted to self-manipulations to justify to yourself why you fail. Instead of doing so, become aware of the true reasons behind your failures – and learn how to succeed! JUSTIFICATION YOU USE If ...
Views: 120 - When You Overcome Your “Fear of Change” You Become Able to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2012 from Doron GilYou might be controlled by the fear of change. When you have a relationship that isn’t satisfying, you’re afraid to make changes or leave and give up the known and familiar, fearing pain and others’ reactions. When single, you hesitate to look for a partner out of fear of changing a way of life ...
Views: 121 - Don’t Sabotage Your Relationship! Become Aware of What You Do – and Change! - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2012 from Doron GilWHY DO YOU FAIL TO DEVELOP A SUCCESSFUL INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP? If you have been trying for quite some time now to find a partner with whom to develop a satisfying relationship but in vain, or are having continuous problems with your partner, there is probably something you do wrong. ...
Views: 179 - Stop Sabotaging Your Relationships! Learn How and Develop a Successful Intimacy - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2012 from Doron GilIf you desire to have a satisfying intimate relationship but haven’t been successful until now, you can probably “predict”, your chances at success next time around based on your past experiences. In all likelihood, if you have failed until now, there is no reason to believe you will succeed ...
Views: 233 - Thinking You Are in Control Prevents You from Making Changes Vital to Developing a Successful Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2012 from Doron GilThinking you are in control of your life might lead you to believe you have done all it takes to develop a successful relationship. But if this is the case, why do you fail with your relationships time and again? Is it possible that you are not aware of the ways in which you sabotage your ...
Views: 58 - Be “The Artist” of Your Relationship Success Story - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2012 from Doron GilYou may be trying for a long time now to find a partner (if you are still single) with whom to develop a successful relationship, or to develop a satisfying one (if you already have a partner). In order to succeed you have probably read advice columns about dating and relationships. Listened ...
Views: 119 - Be Authentic! This is a MUST if You Want to Succeed Having an Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2012 from Doron GilBeing authentic is a MUST in order to develop a successful intimate relationship. Unfortunately, not many are authentic. In this article I explain why it is so difficult for so many to be authentic, and what you can do to enhance your authenticity and thereby your relationships. WHAT DOES ...
Views: 172 - Does Your Anxiety Drive You to Sabotage Your Relationships? Learn How to De-activate its Power - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2012 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Your anxiety often harms your attempts at relationships. It works against you as you try to find a partner and develop a successful intimacy. It drives you to react and behave in ways which are counter-productive to a successful relationship. Combating your anxiety enables you to ...
Views: 140 - How & Why Does Self-Awareness Enable You to Succeed with Your Relationships: Two Examples - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION It isn’t easy to change habits. But when it comes to intimate relationships, sticking-on to your habits is a sure way to fail. When you understand your habits, realize the damage they cause to your relationships and make the necessary effort to change them, you increase your ...
Views: 148 - Why is Self-Awareness the Key to Your Success with Intimate Relationships? - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2012 from Doron GilFINDING OUT WHY YOU FAIL IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS – AND MAKING THE NECESSARY CHANGES If you find yourself failing in your relationships time and again and are not sure why, you are not alone. Many experience similar situations. The best advice I can give you is: DEVELOP SELF-AWARENESS, get in ...
Views: 75 - 17 Tips on How Can Self-Awareness Enable You to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2012 from Doron GilIn the following 17 tips I explain HOW BECOMING SELF-AWARE ENABLES YOU TO DEVELOP AND MAINTAIN A SUCCESSFUL INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP. I show how becoming aware of factors which control you and affect the ways in which you react and behave in dating and relationships is essential to learning ...
Views: 142 - Don’t Let “The Fear of Being Alone” Drive You to Stay in an Unsatisfying Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2012 from Doron GilStaying in an unsatisfying relationship might be driven by many fears, one of which is THE FEAR OF BEING ALONE.You convince yourself that it is better to have a partner and be in a relationship, albeit not a satisfying one, rather than being alone. The problem is that you the give up on your ...
Views: 218 - Does the “Fear of Letting Go” Withhold You from Changing an Unsatisfying Relationship? - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2012 from Doron GilWhether you are single wishing to develop a relationship or have a relationship wishing to change or end it, changing the situation you are in involves taking a risk. The Fear of Letting Go might withhold you from taking such a risk since it makes you anxious about an uncertain future. But the ...
Views: 128 - 10 New-Year Resolutions Which Will Enable You to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship Next Year - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2011 from Doron GilIf you wish wholeheartedly to succeed in cultivating a successful intimate relationship but haven’t been able to doing so this year, here are10 New Year Resolutions which, if you decide to adopt and follow, will empower you to develop the relationship you so much desire: 1. TAKE TIME OFF from ...
Views: 411 - A Smart New Year Resolution: Develop Self-Awareness & Become Empowered to Have a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2011 from Doron GilSTICK ON TO YOUR NEW YEAR RESOLUTION & BECOME ABLE TO DEVELOP A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP New-Year is a time for Resolutions. At times you promise yourself to do such and such in the coming year, but put this intention aside as soon as January 1 is over. The reason is that it is so easy and ...
Views: 218 - Making the Right New Year Resolution Will Enable You to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION No matter how smart, intelligent, good-looking and “in-demand” you are, as long as you are not successful in developing the relationship you desire it means that there is something you do wrong. Why not make a New-Year Resolution to understand what this “something” is and become ...
Views: 211 - Alone During the Holidays? Take the Time to Heal Yourself and Become Able to Develop a Successful Relationship Next Year - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2011 from Doron GilIt always amazes me to see the ways in which people attempt to ensure they have someone to spend the holidays with. Some SINGLES vehemently look for a partner right before the holidays in order to escape being alone while “everybody else is with loved ones”. Those in a RELATIONSHIP often ...
Views: 73 - Do You Want to Have a Successful Intimate Relationship Next Year? Here Are the Requirements - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2011 from Doron GilDo you find yourself at the end of this year either without a partner or dissatisfied with your relationship? Do you wish to ensure that next year you’ll have a successful and satisfying relationship? If so, what you need to do is embark on The Journey to Self-Awareness: Understand what has led ...
Views: 82 - Your Attitude to Love, Dating and Relationships is Crucial in Your Ability to Develop a Successful Intimacy - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2011 from Doron GilThe attitude you have while going on dates is crucial to your succeeding or failing to extend a date to a meaningful relationship. The more you take the time to reflect upon your attitude this holiday season and realize whether it sabotages you or not, the more you can change and adopt a healthy ...
Views: 198(2 votes) - Survive the Holidays’ Blues: Learn about Yourself and Become Empowered to Develop a Successful Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Are you afraid from being infected with the “holidays’ blues”? From feeling depressed and lonely? The best you can do for yourself is be determined to “use” the holidays’ time to find out why you’re still single and what you need to “work on” and change in order to find a partner ...
Views: 261 - Single & Dating? Give Yourself the Perfect Christmas Gift & Succeed in Having an Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2011 from Doron GilCHRISTMAS IS A TIME TO GIVE AND RECEIVE PRESENTS As Christmas approaches you probably wonder what presents to give. If you have a partner you want to show how much you love him/her. You are also curious what gift they’ll give you. But if you don’t have a partner, here’s an idea for a great ...
Views: 145 - Rushing to Find a Partner by Christmas Might Mislead You. Be Careful Not to Shoot Yourself in the Foot! - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION As long as you run the dating-marathon in order to have a relationship by Christmas rather than taking the time to contemplate you past failures and learn what to change, you might fail once again! DON’T SHOOT YOURSELF IN THE FOOT! Is it possible that due to so many dates ...
Views: 205 - Don’t Let Your Expectations about Your Partner & Relationship Harm You Just Before the Holidays! - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2011 from Doron GilEXPECTATIONS ABOUT PARTNERS AND RELATIONSHIPS We all have expectations about partners and relationships, and this is natural. However, if you hold on to unrealistic expectations hoping that they will be fulfilled, you are likely to harm your relationships. Becoming aware of your expectations ...
Views: 281 - What to do When the Fear of Change Withholds You from Changing an Unsatisfying Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Whether single or in an unsatisfying relationship, you might be afraid to change your situation. You might want to do so; you might tell yourself you are “about to doing so”; you might wait for “the right moment” to making a change in your life. But time goes by and you find ...
Views: 150 - Thanksgiving: Learn How to Develop a Successful Relationship and Thank Yourself for Doing So! - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Thanksgiving is a perfect holiday to begin your process of Self-Awareness, learn how to succeed with relationships, and thank yourself for having the courage to doing so. You can attain self-growth each time you go on a date or start a relationship. It is a matter of willing ...
Views: 126(1 vote) - How to Turn a Failed Relationship into a Successful One: Self-Awareness is the Answer - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION It isn’t easy to change habits. But when it comes to intimate relationships, sticking-on to your habits is a sure way to fail. When you understand your habits, realize the damage they cause to your relationships and make the necessary effort to change them, you increase your ...
Views: 237 - A Couple Coming towards Each Other: Enhancing Intimacy through Self-Awareness - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2011 from Doron GilIt often happens that couple’s intimacy experiences difficulties for the simple reason that the partners don’t know, or are unwilling, to come towards one another. Each believes his/her way of thinking and doing things is “the right way”. In addition, women in general often feel they are not ...
Views: 107 - A Successful Intimate Relationship Depends on Being Aware - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION We all like to think that we are logical, rational human beings. But many of our reactions and behaviors are driven by factors we NOT aware of – leading us to harm our relationships. Developing Self-Awareness paves the way to a successful intimacy. ARE WE RATIONAL HUMAN ...
Views: 216 - Wearing a Mask of “A Loving Person” Sabotages Your Relationships - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION When you are “there” 100% for your partner – are you there because this is “who you really are”, or this is a mask you hope will get you love, appreciation and attention? Knowing the difference between the two is important for your relationship. DO YOU WEAR A MASK - NOT ONLY ...
Views: 178 - As Long As You Wear Masks You Hinder Your Ability to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION As long as you go on dates wearing masks – not presenting your “real you”, you might stay single. When you become aware of the masks you wear, understand why you wear them and have the courage to remove them you can develop a truly intimate relationship. IF YOU TRICK YOUR ...
Views: 252(1 vote) - Taking Off Your Masks is a Prerequisite to Succeed in an Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Masks you wear might have a heavy toll on your relationships. You are not “who you really are”. You can’t develop a truly intimate bond. Acknowledging the masks and removing them is a prerequisite for a successful intimate relationship. DO YOU PRESENT TO YOURSELF AND OTHERS ...
Views: 200(1 vote) - Change the Way You Do “The Dating-Game”- and Succeed in Developing an Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION If you have been in the dating-game for quite a long time now and still are not successful to develop a successful intimate relationship, maybe it’s time for you to change tactics. Having the courage to do things differently may prove to be “the right way” to succeed in finding a ...
Views: 165 - When Should You Embark on The Self-Awareness Process & Learn How to Succeed with Your Relationships? - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from Doron GilWHEN IS THE SELF-AWARENESS PROCESS NOT A CHOICE, BUT A REQUIREMENT? Whether you are single wishing to develop a satisfying intimate relationship but to no avail, or in a relationship experiencing problems and difficulties similar to the ones you have experienced with previous partners, and ...
Views: 229 - How to Develop Self-Awareness & Succeed with Your Relationships 2: The Importance of Observing Yourself - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Observing yourself enables you to become aware of your thoughts, feelings, attitudes, reactions and behaviors in relationships (or in staying single). You can then understand how these drive you to sabotage your relationships. This enables you to make the necessary changes and ...
Views: 242 - How to Develop Self-Awareness & Succeed with Your Relationships 1: Stages of the Process - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Doron GilIf you are sincerely motivated to develop a satisfying relationship and haven’t succeeded until now, developing your Self-Awareness is a must. It is the only means by which you can realize what made you fail in your relationships until now, change what needs change and become empowered to ...
Views: 131 - If You Fail with Your Relationships Time and Again, Isn’t It Time to Develop Your Self-Awareness? - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2011 from Doron GilAt times, when you find yourself failing – once again! - to develop a successful intimate relationship, you may think about developing your Self-Awareness and get a hold on the ways in which you sabotage your relationships. But then, do you feel motivated to doing so out of belief in the merit ...
Views: 171 - NOT BEING TRUE TO YOURSELF HARMS YOUR RELATIONSHIPS - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION As long as you are not TURE TO YOURSELF you harm your relationships. Finding out what prevents you from being true to yourself is vital for initiating the necessary changes and cultivate a successful intimacy. WHAT DOES IT MEAN “NOT BEING TRUE TO YOURSELF”? When you are NOT ...
Views: 379(1 vote) - Getting in Touch with Your Will Is Vital for Having a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2011 from Doron GilNOT BEING IN TOUCH WITH YOUR WILL SABOTAGES YOUR RELATIONSHIPS If you haven’t been successful in cultivating a successful relationship until now, in spite of your many attempts at dating and with on-and-off relationships, you might be telling yourself the following: * “If only I had a ...
Views: 157 - Self-Awareness or Attraction and Desire: Which is More Important for a Successful Intimate Relationship? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2011 from Doron GilMany believe that attraction and desire are some of the most important ingredients of a successful relationship. But a less-known concept – Self-Awareness – is vital to the maintenance of a long-term healthy and satisfying intimacy. INGREDIENT OF A GOOD RELATIONSHIP Many perceive sexual ...
Views: 293(1 vote) - Self-manipulations, Justifications and Explanations Singles Use to Justify their Failed Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Doron GilDuring my many years of experience with Self-Awareness and Relationships I’ve witnessed often how many people use self-manipulations to justify to themselves why they AREN’T successful in developing an intimate relationship. These justifications apparently help them feel “good” about themselves. ...
Views: 223 - Defining One's Relationship-Status on Facebook as “Complicated” – What Stands Behind it? - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2011 from Doron GilNO ONE HAS EVER PROMISSED YOU A ROSE GARDEN No one has ever said relationships are easy. Neither with a “soul-mate” nor with “loved-ones”. Arguments, disagreements and conflicts always exist. They are part of the relationship. THE MEANING OF “COMPLICATED” Yet, when I see from time to ...
Views: 338 - Attraction, Desire, Self-Awareness and Intimate Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2011 from Doron GilThere are some surprising similarities between Sexual desire and Self-Awareness with regard to Intimate Relationships, some of which you might have never thought about. And why would you? The two seem to be worlds-apart. But are they? SIMILARITIES BETWEEN SEXUAL DESIRE AND ...
Views: 369(1 vote) - How to Release Yourself from Your Inner-Prison and Make Conscious Decisions about Your Life and Relationships - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2011 from Doron GilBradley Manning, a 23 year old American soldier is in prison for leaking “SECRET INFORMATION” (250 thousand documents) to WikiLeaks. Some say he is a courageous man and call him a hero; others say he is a traitor. While Bradley Manning is in jail awaiting trial, many others who walk around ...
Views: 300 - Your “Self-Awareness Score” is Directly Linked to Your Ability to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2011 from Doron GilMany who fail to cultivate a successful relationship often ask me “What’s the secret to succeeding”. As I explain to them that “the secret” is Self-Awareness, they often are surprised. They admit they have heard many “tips” and “words of wisdom” how to go about developing a satisfying ...
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