Many people want to make use of the law of attraction in order to better their relationships, but are not sure how to apply these laws. Relationships are similar to jobs and you have to keep working at them. No matter if you are trying to create a new relationship or are trying to improve an existing relationship. No matter how good a relationship is, there comes a time when relationships face difficulties. During these difficult times, one can make use of the law of attraction to your benefit.
The law of attraction will help you overcome these difficult times and eliminate any further problems. When problems arise in a relationship, partners may experience hurt and disappointment. All relationships experience hardships and problems, and this is the time where the couple starts to doubts each other. By applying the law of attraction you can forgive yourself and your partner and change the negative situation into a positive situation.
Always remember what attracted you to your partner in the first instance, and accept that every person has their faults, that no person is perfect. Love and understanding in turn creates happiness and circumstances that are positive in your life. A lack of understanding or acceptance creates a breeding ground for contempt. People are individuals, and a fulfilling relationship is when each partner understands the laws of attraction.
You have to change the way you think and behave as opposed to trying to change the way your partner thinks and behaves. You can strengthen your relationship by applying the laws of attraction. Whenever you hit a trouble spot, first consider your behavior patterns towards your partner and other people around you. Once you change your attitude towards your partner, the situation will turn around for the better and you will note that your partner’s attitude will also change for the better.
Placing demands on your partner will cause conflict and conflict will result in resentment which in turn will lead to separation or divorce. Marriage is a commitment whereby both parties need to compromise on a daily basis. Yes, there will be situations whereby one become irritates with their partner for leaving clothes lying on the floor or not closing the shampoo bottle.
In such instances one should gently express their feeling to their partner positively as opposed to becoming enraged and causing conflict over trivial matters. Your partner will respond positively and will then try and rectify their bad habits. Success in a relationship is not about clothes lying on the floor, but about compromising and learning to live with each other in harmony.
The essence of the law of attraction teaches us to compromise and teaches us to be positive and tolerant of ourselves as well as other people. No matter if you have lived a miserable life, remember you are the one that created this reality and you are the only one that can change this reality. The measures of success are based on the way you think. If your thoughts are negative, your life will be negative and if your thoughts are positive, then only will you experience success in a relationship and life in general.
Jill Magso is a member of the Silva Team and contributes to spreading enlightened ideas and sharing teachings about meditation practices. The Silva Method encompasses a variety of powerful exercises that take you deep into Alpha and Theta levels of the mind so that you can work within your subconscious as well as your conscious mind.