Why Negative People Are Not Responsible For Their Negativity

By Nick Arrizza M.D.

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Now does that title sound like I’m in denial? It may to those individuals who are so identified with their negativity that they have no awareness of where that negativity really comes from. That awareness is also the answer to permanently deleting all negativity that resides within you.

So why are you not responsible for the negativity inside you?

Well for several reasons:

1. By definition “negative” implies “unwanted” or “undesirable” by you.
2. You are not in control of it.
3. You did not create it.
4. You cannot (without the assistance you will learn about here) be able to completely get rid of it.
5. It has a “life” of its own.

In other words the negativity is something that lives “inside” you but is “not” you!

So where does it come from and why is it inside?

Well it is sourced from the videotape you call your Life History which is stored in your unconscious mind/body. That videotape is something that was recorded and stored within you much against your wishes. You know that by the very fact that you refer to and feel much of it as negative i.e. unwanted.

The unfortunate part of the story is that many of you have unwittingly identified yourselves with it i.e. you have reluctantly chosen to accept that it represents who you are while at the same time labelling it as negative. That has the sad result of also making you negative, feel inadequate, worthless, self deprecating, unworthy, defective, deficient, abnormal, etc.

That videotape is very much like a series of hypnotic suggestions that puts and keeps you in a trance of denial about who you really are. So who are you? Well you are the being who refers to that videotape as negative and unwanted.

Now, if you wish, try the following; place one hand over your Heart and as if you are speaking from there simply say:

“ I am the being who refers to that videotape as negative and that means that a) I do not want it inside me, b) I want it purged from my life and c) I want to live and express my self as the authentic being that I am.”

Now take a moment and notice how you feel inside. The burgeoning positive feelings are an experience of who you really are. If this resonates with you or you like these feelings then kindly affirm that to yourself via your Heart and it will get stronger.

In order to fully free yourself from this negativity it becomes necessary to completely erase it from within.

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