Yoni is the conventional Indian word for vagina. Sanskrit in origin, the broad interpretation is holy space. It is a term of reverence and respect and is the belief that forms the root of Yoni massage. It is often used to free women from sexual inhibitions that may have been brought on by negative sexual or life experiences. It is used to free the woman's sexual energy and offer release of pent up energy. It can be very healing and can offer a girl the trail to wholeness. Too often the ordinary sexual experience produces the reverse effect. When focussing on the target of orgasm there is no room for relaxation and pleasure in the instant.
The target of the Yoni massage isn't orgasm. It may occur and is adequate but it isn't a goal. The importance and point of the Yoni massage is to target the experience of touch, relaxation, pleasure and release. Each woman is at a different place in her journey and each Yoni massage produces unique ends in an individual. To start a Yoni massage be sure and make a snug setting for the lady. It is of utmost importance that she feels relaxed and free from worry or concern. In order for her to experience the fullness of the Yoni massage she must not experience distraction or pain. With that condition, the Yoni massage can be done on a massage table, bed or any other comfortable location that allows room for the giver to move about. The room temperature should be snug for her to lie undressed and disclosed.
Start by massaging the full body. Dim the lights and use massage oil overtly.
To begin the yoni massage, place a pillow covered by a towel under her hips and let her draw her legs up toward her chest and let them fall apart to a snug, relaxed position, supported by cushions. The Yoni will therefore be manifestly exposed and available to the giver. Breathe deeply together before you start. You both need to become as relaxed as possible.
Induce the receiver to relax. Work your way over the gut, hips, chest and thighs totally before beginning a Yoni massage. When the receiver is adequately relaxed you can begin the Yoni massage by squeezing the outer lips steadily between your fingers and sliding them up and down the entire length of the lips. Be sure and use soft, relaxed, slow movements at any point. Keep in eye contact with the receiver and take your cues from her sign of pleasure or discomfort. If they are enjoying what you do continue, if they do not appear to be comfortable, move on to something else. You will then engage the clitoris using clockwise, circular motions. Squeeze it softly between your thumb and forefinger. It is intensely sensitive so be highly controlled and sensitive with your touch.
The following step is to go into the Yoni by gently inserting your middle finger of your right hand into the opening. Take tons of time.
Try and remain relaxed and practice deep breathing together. The slower your motions, the more pleasant the experience will be for the receiver. Explore the inner caves of the Yoni. Change the length, pressure and speed of your movements and watch the receiver for indications of sensual pleasure. While your finger is in the Yoni, position the middle of your hand facing forward and crook your finger in a come here motion toward the front of the body. You must feel a miniscule, soft area just behind the pubic bone and under the clitoris. This is the holy spot in Tantric or constantly called the G-Spot. Massage this spot gently but firmly. It might be uncomfortable to the receiver so be sure and watch your other half's expression for cues.
Continue to give pleasure and healing in a gentle waves, stopping and slowing down when the feelings and sensations intensify, and then continue for at least 30 minutes.
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