You may be working your tail off to market your business and yet youâre still wondering why it hasnât âhappenedâ yet. Iâve seen this happen thousands of times. An entrepreneur is seemingly working HARD to get clients, working like a dog to bring in some good in-come and yet, the results just arenât showing up. Itâs like fighting an uphill battle and often seems like itâs not really worth it, or worse, like somethingâs wrong with us.
But the real battle thatâs going on isnât with the marketing, itâs that somethingâs wrong on the INSIDE. If thereâs a struggle on the OUTSIDE, it simply means that one exists on the INSIDE, and itâs based on our conditioning. You see, how we are conditioned affects virtually every aspect of our life: our relationships, health, finances, success, even Client Attraction.
If youâre experiencing struggle or results arenât happening fast enough, it just means thereâs an inner conflict that affects how you think and feel, as well as your beliefs and fears. Itâs the battle between your conscious and your unconscious.
âWhen your conscious mind thinks you want something but your subconscious mind thinks you donât deserve it (or any other limiting belief), you will fail at getting what you want. Instead you will actually attract what your subconscious feels is right for you. In order to attract what you prefer, your conscious and subconscious have to be in agreement.â-Joe Vitale
If thereâs an exterior struggle, like clients not coming in fast enough or the fact that money is REALLY tight, then it means that PART of you wants something (your conscious) and PART of you doesnât (your subconscious). The bad news is, your subconscious has veto power over your conscious, always.
The GOOD news is, once you clear the interior struggle, the results you want happen almost instantly. Thatâs whatâs happened to me in the past year or two and continues to happen. The more I match the inside with what I âsayâ I want, the more opportunities come my way, the more in-come shows up and the easier it all is. And I mean really easy. (And before you start going âthereâ, just remember that Iâm no different than you. Once you work on your own Inner Game of Client Attraction, you too can experience the same results.)
Itâs not about working harder! If you want different results, you must change your subconscious beliefs and get clear on the fears that are not congruent with what you SAY you want. Hereâs a few of the hundreds that Iâve come up with, based on a survey I did:
* âThey wonât pay for thisâ
* âI donât know enoughâ
* âIf I get bigger, theyâll find out Iâm a fraudâ
* âIâm a failureâ
* âIf I get too many clients, Iâll get overwhelmedâ
* âIâm not worth itâ
* âI canât have it allâ
* âMy expertise is common senseâ
If this is whatâs going on in your subconscious, youâre essentially driving with the parking brake on, and weâve got to do something about that if you want to begin seeing different results. Otherwise, youâll continue to push really hard, work REALLY hard and not see the results you say you want.
If you want to succeed, get rid of this GUNK and SLUDGE inside. The key is to become AWARE of your which fears and subconscious beliefs are sabotaging you on a daily basis, like some of the ones listed above. Once youâre clear on them, figure out where they came from, process them and then release them. This will immediately change your behaviors, increase your in-come and new opportunities will start showing up, ones that you never expected. Youâll wonder why you struggled for so long.
Fabienne Fredrickson, The Client Attraction Mentor, is founder of the Client Attraction System, the proven step-by-step program that shows you exactly how to attract more clients, in record time...guaranteed. To get your F.R.E.E. Audio CD by mail and receive her weekly marketing & success mindset articles on attracting more high-paying clients and dramatically increasing your income, visit ClientAttraction.com.