Dating
How To Attract The Right Guy
By Christina Zottnick
Apr 27, 2008

When it comes to love and romance, we all have had to learn one or the other painful lesson in our lives.

At times, finding the perfect mate seems to be an almost impossible task with the shadows of past experiences preventing us from approaching the one we want unprejudiced and with open hearts.

Be honest, have you ever felt thoroughly frustrated trying to establish a relationship with a great guy, who is warm, kind, caring and ready for a commitment (!) and despite all your efforts, you did not manage to find success?

If so, you are definitely not alone.

Sad fact is, many, many good looking, smart and successful single females of all ages have been led to believe that they do not deserve a happy and fulfilling relationship.

They have a negative tape running in their heads telling them things like:

"The best men are always unavailable."
"Great guys always ignore me."
"Nobody seems to appreciate me."
"I do not deserve a perfect guy." and so on.

Consequently, they start falling into a depressive mood, doubting themselves. They gradually lose their self-esteem and become suspicious of anyone trying to approach. In short, they develop all kinds of "self-handicapping" mechanisms, thus making it impossible to let love blossom.

Does any of this sound familiar to you?
Don't procrastinate any longer!

The key to solving this dilemma is to simply acknowledge that our own personal attitudes are equally reflected by the outside world.

A positive, open-minded way of thinking will consequently attract an equally positive response from others.

So, the trick is to simply teach ourselves to become aware and - step-by-step - get rid of the self-destructive patterns and negative believes we have established over the years. Of course, this might take awhile, but in the end it will very well be worth the effort.

For further info on how to do this and change your perspective on love and romance forever, go to:

http://lovesurvivor.blogspot.com

"Becoming a Man Magnet" will give you all the details.