Intimacy
Cooking Romantic Dinner Recipes And Romantic Food
By Sheryl Josserme
Feb 9, 2008

This article is about how intimacy in our relationship may benefit when cooking romantic dinner recipes. The reason why I decided to write this article is because we women are prone to bury our heads in the sand and fail at dealing head-on with many realities.

One of those realities is that we wives ~and those thinking about becoming one~ are losing our men at an alarming rate. They may not leave us, but it is not few the cases when slowly, gradually, and imperceptibly our companions in life are coming back to us after having affairs with other women. Many of us will never get to know it. Some may suspect it. Regardless, most of us do what we women are good at: to pretend.

According to my extensive observations, men are creatures of nature. It is nature's designer the one telling men to take all the women they can. That designer does it through instincts and sex drive. To have one woman is socially and legally imposed, but nature's designer operates differently. It is not young men's fathers, older brothers, or uncles the ones who have the job of telling them. It is deeply embedded instincts and a powerful sex drive the ones used to send men a commanding and persuasive message.

I do not blame men going with the flow. They follow and act on what every fiber in their bodies and minds tell them. They comply with what the designer of nature mandates and imposes on them. They do it just like we women follow and act on our deeply embedded maternal instincts to become mothers.

Wisely, that designer created a factor to influence and possibly dominate men's instincts: "conscience". When a man is in love, another woman does not count for him. His conscience acts like a powerful break that makes him feel like walking to the moon or swim across an ocean for one woman, and one woman only.

Unfortunately, we women neglect our relationship believing that with a Marriage License we are forever guaranteed a husband in love with us. We women seldom think what I learned a long time ago: "Contentions of a wife are as a leaking roof which drives a husband away". Should we add to the nature's designer's cocktail of deeply embedded instincts, sex drive, our own neglect for our relationship, plus the ingredient of women fanatically waving the flag of "I am independent and liberated" ~and in the process they end up in bed with a guy they met with at the office or other places regardless of whether he is married or not~ the risk to us wives losing our men balloons meaningfully.

I concluded that we wives must act sensibly. I discovered that when cooking romantic dinner recipes using our romantic food, we can successfully achieve a vital and valid goal: to keep our men coming back to us because they love us and not because they legally have to.

Cooking romantic dinner recipes with romantic food is the most efficient way to make stronger the bond with a husband by creating unforgettable romantic evenings. We must carefully plan all of it, and use our imagination so that we let him know how far we are willing to go for his love. Furthermore, we pledge to ourselves that he will not be living under a "leaking roof".

Cooking romantic dinner recipes open the gates to events that get etched in his heart and yours. There is no more efficient way to bond with him. I further concluded that a woman wise enough to do something about it gives herself a magnificent chance when cooking her own romantic dinner recipes. That chance is to transform her romantic food into a bomb shell of nutrients to nourish both her and his health, and his stamina and virility.