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Relationship Advice
Cooking Romantic Dinner Recipes – Romantic Food
By Sheryl Josserme
Nov 28, 2008

I once read an extensive research by two Sociologists, and when I finished reading, I knew exactly what they were writing about. In their book, they wrote that "Women go through life out of synchronization with reality". How does cooking romantic dinner recipes fit in? This is what I construed. Read on. You be the judge.

As these two Sociologists explained, we women do not confront reality head-on. As a result, we women are prone to act in certain ways. One of them is to bury our heads in the sand. Women's intent, they claim, is to pretend that things are the way they are not lying to themselves and to others. It appears that Sociologists already know.

There is, however, one thing that I strongly believe we women must confront head-on without lying and pretending. It is about our men. We are losing them slowly, gradually ~and in most cases~ imperceptibly. Many of us will never get to know it. Some may suspect it. Few already know it and use the recourse we women are good at: we pretend.

I have observed and studied men quite extensively. It is clear that they are creatures of nature. It is not so clear to us women, however, that it is nature's designer the one telling men to take all the women they can. It is not fathers, older brothers, or uncles telling younger men to take all the women they can. To have one woman is socially and legally imposed, but nature's designer mandates otherwise using two powerful tools: deeply embedded instincts and a vigorous sex drive.

Men know all of this when they look at each other in the eye.

The risk to us wives doubles in seriousness when women out there fervently wave a flag: "I am independent and liberated". Those women are willing to have affairs or to make themselves available to have sex with a guy they met at the office or other places regardless of his marital status. Personally, I do not blame men going with the flow. They act on what a master mind first conceived and then systematically imposes on men. Guys act on their instincts and sex drive just like we women act on our maternal instincts.

There is one splendid way we women can use to keep our men with us. It never fails to work. Read that again: "It never fails to work". That way is to use romantic food when cooking romantic dinner recipes.

Let's realize that cooking romantic dinner recipes at home must be planned, and it must be done with imagination. When we are cooking romantic dinner recipes, our own romantic food allows us to create unforgettable and fabulous events. All of them will get etched in our heart and his, and so we promote a stronger bond with him. We are letting that man in our life know how far we are willing to go for his love, and that he is wanted and needed.

In the process, we give ourselves a splendid chance to transform our romantic food into bomb shells of nutrients to nourish both our health, and his virility. In my e-book, I disclose which healthy foods to use without affecting your meals or his taste.

Few things are more engaging to any man than coming to a woman who transforms regular days into romantic evenings at home. Cooking romantic dinner recipes open the gates to unforgettable and enchanting evenings that keep alive his feelings for us. We may not be able to do it every day, but we must find ways to surprise him often enough until romance becomes the norm in our lives rather than an event that occurs "yes... some times".

When we feed our relationship and keep it healthy as the day we said "Yes", we preserve our right to keep our man in love with us instead of him coming to us after having encounters with other women.


All you read above is directed to women out there who are not yet aware
that we may continue singing songs about "the way things should be", but
nature's designer may not sing along.

It is up to you to bury your head in the sand or not, to confront reality
head-on or not, or to remain out of synchronization so nothing changes.

There is a splendid tool right by your side to keep him by your side:
romantic food used to do magic when cooking romantic dinner recipes.


 




Author's Bio

* Sheryl Josserme
* Author of "Cooking For Your Man"

A strong believer that a relationship is more than a Marriage License.
Her e-book unveils the most profficient ways to fuel the fire before
another license becomes worthless: cooking romantic dinner recipes.


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