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Romantic Food Recipes – Enticing Romantic Evenings At Home
By Sheryl Josserme
Feb 9, 2008
In this article, I wanted to pass on to women some of the conclusions I arrived at after my extensive observation of men, women, and their relationships. How is this related to cooking romantic food recipes in romantic evenings at home? Read on. Then, you be the judge.
Let's first put two and two together. Observing men, I concluded the obvious: they are creatures of nature. Since early in men's lives, nature's designer sends them the message to take all the women they can.
It is not fathers. It is not older brothers or uncles. It is not the society. It is nature's designer. Men look at each other in their eyes and they know the persistent and inescapable message sent to them when it comes to women. That designer does it using two intense and powerfully persuasive tools: strong and deeply embedded instincts, and a vigorous sex drive. Those instincts and sex drive unalterably are there throughout their lives, and a man's marital status is not taken into consideration.
On the other side of the fence ~so to speak~ I discovered that since the last two decades or so of the last century a large percentage of western women fervently wave the flag of "I am independent and liberated". Those women are willing to become involved ~and much too often accepting sex~ with guys they meet at the office or other places. I do not blame guys going with the flow. Should their relationship with their wives be getting old, boring, and tasteless, all they do is to act on nature.
Dinner has the power to create the mood and the environment that lastingly gets etched in both hearts. When cooking romantic food recipes to create those unforgettable events, the bond with him gets boosted as his feelings for us get refreshed. In the process, we wives have a chance to transform our romantic food recipes into bomb shells of nutrients to nourish both our health, and to keep up his virility. In my e-book, I disclose the healthy foods to use without affecting his taste.
Although it may not be possible to do it every day, I learned that cooking romantic food recipes realistically open the gates to unforgettable and fabulous romantic evenings at home; and when done consistently, they are responsible for boosting our relationship until romanticism becomes the norm in our lives rather than something that occurs "yes... some times". The purpose is to preserve our right to make our men remain in love with us rather than to come to us after romantic encounters with other women.
My e-book is directed to women who are not yet totally convinced that life may not be what we women would like it to be. We sing songs about the way a relationship should be, but facts of life and nature's designer may not sing along.
It is up to you and I to bury our head in the sand, to confront reality
head-on, to pretend that our relationship will always be safe, or not.
We now know, however, that there is such splendid tool on our side when
cooking romantic food recipes in unforgettable romantic evenings at home.