Mediation is a casual process in which a neutral party to the conflict helps bring two opposing sides together via a clear channel of communication. I believe that this clear channel of communication must be supported by a professional and, for the lack of a better word, elegant approach while treating every case differently. Every person which uses mediation is an individual in every way. Each has a distinctive character, an individual need, a separate concern, approach and temper. Therefore each case must be treated like no other.

It is my, and in my opinion every mediator's duty, to be able to analyze these individual needs quickly and accurately in the beginning, if not prior to each and every mediation. It is because of this initial assessment and the ability to gather necessary information from both parties in a timely fashion without making anyone feel rushed I am able to use the collaboration of both, the plaintiff and defense, to come to a mutually acceptable agreement 97 percent of the time.

How do you prevent a person from allowing other to make the biggest mistakes of their life for them? This question is not a typo; many people, every day make this mistake. In a dispute surrounding only them selves and another party they will involve a biased person, such as attorney to help them settle the argument. However, as soon as you involve an attorney, who usually works of commission, the negotiation takes a violent turn, you are no longer in control. Gain back the control by utilizing a non-biased person who will help you communicate throughout your argument better and make the decisions your self. Do not end an argument with, "I'll see you in court!" Rather end it with, "Let's mediate and remain friends."

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American Mediation of Los Angeles County

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