Iâm Gerardo Campbell a stepfather veteran of 16+ years. In 1995, when I married the âPretty Ladyâ and I became the stepfather to her two children ages 10 and 14 at the time. Back in 1995, there was little, if any, resources, information or coaching available for stepfathers. I became a stepfather equipped with the very best intentions combined with my own perceptions, expectations and very little outside preparation. Considering the mountains we faced over the years itâs only through Godâs grace that we didnât end up another divorce statistic. Through this website I want to share with you my experience, my lessons learned and the lessons learned from others. It is possible to be a successful stepparent.