For a representative list of my speaking and workshop topics, please visit www.attorneyatlove.com.

I also do one-on-one post-divorce counseling for a very limited number of clients. For information, rates, and availability please send a summary of your situation to jim@attorneyatlove.com.

Although my formal training is in law and mediation, my approach is more that of a coach and trusted friend. I try to challenge and encourage my readers, clients, and workshop participants to look inward, define their own goals, and live an authentic life: a life in which one's deepest values and one's everyday reality are in reasonable harmony. I do not so much believe in marriage, per se, as I believe in good marriages. I don't idealize divorce, but I see it as preferable to serving a life sentence without parole, which is the sad reality of too many marriages. Ultimately, I believe in hope, in purposeful action, and in the sustaining power of commitment to one's truest self.

Please visit my website (www.attorneyatlove.com) for detailed information about me, my book, my personal and professional background, and the services I offer as a speaker and workshop leader.

Please also read my weekly blog articles (www.attorneyatlove.blogspot.com), which deal exclusively with issues related to marriage, divorce, post-divorce dating, and remarriage.