My life has been strangely blessed. My father left when I was 3 and I never saw him again. Iâm sad I never met him later in life, but I know enough about him to understand that it was a blessing in disguise.
In college I met the man I would be married to for 29 years. I got pregnant in my freshman year and we got married after he graduated that year with a degree in business. We had two wonderful children and enjoyed a happy life together for all but the last two years.
We enjoyed financial success, lived in beautiful homes, traveled the world and had an active social life. As things began to fall apart, I moved to Maui to get away from the hurt and chaos that he had initiated. I hated Maui and whining to a friend, âWhy didnât I go to Bali where I feel at home?â she said, âWhy donât you go, thereâs nothing keeping you in Maui.â So I called a Balinese friend who was managing a beautiful hotel, the Bali Spirit, and asked if he could give me a friend price on a room for a few months.
He said to come on over and stay for free. But in exchange, I would train his staff so they could compete with the high end hotels. It was a wonderful opportunity and I loved being there. While there, I realized I wanted to live there and make it my home. I designed a house, selected some property that was for lease, and started wrapping my mind around living there.
One of the problems of being in Bali is every two months you have to leave the country to renew your visa. So, I decided Iâd go back to Santa Barbara and file for divorce (my husband didnât want a divorce and wouldnât file).
While I was in Bali, a wonderful man seduced me, realizing that I was hanging on to a marriage that was clearly over. It was a magical experience because he was a gifted lover and opened me to a whole new world. Wowâ¦
So while I was in Santa Barbara, dealing with the divorce and other factors required to make my move to Bali, I started teaching a workshop. It was called âEmbracing Our Sensual Selvesâ. Yes, there was a lot about sex in it, but it was also about sharing how my time in Bali had opened me up to all the glories and magic of being alive on this magnificent planet.
Because I loved teaching workshops, I realized I would not be able to do that in Bali. So I made the decision to stay in Santa Barbara. Itâs turned out to be the best decision of my life. Thatâs because, now, after I ended a six year relationship with a lovely man who wasnât the right man, I have met the man of my dreams. Well, thatâs not really true, because heâs way beyond anything I ever dreamed possible.
I want you to be as happy as I am; to experience profound love that brings tears to your eyes simply because you are so grateful; and to feel blessed that you love who you are, a glorious, magnificent woman. So I write my books and articles, shoot videos, and teach workshops in order to guide you to become a Fabulous Feminine Female through the Magic of Feminine Graceâ¢.
Thousands of women have been asking for more on how to develop their Feminine Grace, first introduced in Men Made Easy. "The Five Facets of Feminine Grace" is now available. You can start with the first lesson right now.
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"The purpose of intimate partnership is for us to midwife the perfection in each other.
The point of love is to reveal to us the light inside." -- From "Illuminata" by Marianne Williamson
"Be the change you want to see in the world." -- Mahatma Gandhi
Our fast-paced, ever changing society needs a new way to look at romantic love. The old ways of being in a relationship no longer work. What I offer is a way to step on to a pathway that will lead to each individual discovering their own unique way to love. From that jumping off place, a couple who understands themselves well enough to know what they want, deep in their hearts, can work together to design a marriage or long-term relationship that fits their needs perfectly. My life's work is to help couples do exactly that.