• Victimization status is the modern promised land of absolution from personal responsibility.
• Because it’s possible to do, and you have the right to do it, doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do.
• Values are principles and ideas that bring meaning to the seemingly mundane experience of life. A meaningful life that ultimately brings happiness and pride requires you to respond to temptations as well as challenges with honor, dignity, and courage.
From Ten Stupid Things Couples Do to Mess Up Their Relationships:
• Stupid Secrets
Withholding important information for fear of rejection.
• Stupid Egotism
Asking not what you can do for the relationship but only what the rela-tionship can do for you.
• Stupid Pettiness
Making a big deal out of the small stuff.
• Stupid Power
Always trying to be in control.
• Stupid Priorities
Consuming all your time and energies with work, hobbies, errands, and chores instead of focusing on your relationship.
• Stupid Happiness
Seeking stimulation and assurance from all the wrong places to satisfy the immature need to feel good.
• Stupid Excuses
Not being accountable for bad behavior.
• Stupid Liaisons
Not letting go of negative attachments to friends and relatives who are damaging to your relationship.
• Stupid Mismatch
Not knowing when to leave and cut your losses.
• Stupid Breakups
Disconnection for all the wrong reasons.