In 2001, my 24-year marriage abruptly ended in divorce. I took about a year to heal before I felt the time was right to start dating. Married friends didnât know single men to fix me up with so my only choice was online dating. I had no clue as to what I was doing with online dating and ended up making a lot of mistakes beginning with writing a profile that didnât attract the kind of man I really wanted in my life.
I started to dread dating and I was miserable trying to figure it all out on my own. There was so much I just didnât get about dating like why so many first dates never make it to second dates. Taking all of this personally began taking a toll on my self-esteem. At that time, there was no one to turn to for solid advice about dating at this age.
I met my second husband online. The chemistry between us was off the charts and we found ourselves engaged after knowing each other only 3 months. Within a year we were married. I didnât realize we had the WRONG chemistry, which lead to a divorce 2 years later.
Once again single, I found myself dreading the idea of dating again- this time in my 50âs feeling a lot older with an older body. I decided to look for a dating coach who could help me find and understand men at this age. But, all I found were dating coaches in their 20âs and 30âs. These were the ages of my children-how could they possibly know what it felt like to go out and date at this age?
I realized I was going to have to do it alone again but this time I was determined to figure out how to have fun dating and how to successfully find a âQuality Man.â I began researching the struggles and the successes women over 50 had when it came to dating plus I began dating lots and lots of men. I spoke with these men plus many more to get an understanding of how they felt about dating and what they were looking for with women at this time in their lives.
I ended up uncovering the Essential Keys that women over 50 could use to date successfully and happily at this age. Using these same keys, I found myself having fun dating great âQuality Men.â And, I ended up finding my own Mr. Right using the keys I discovered.
I realize how many women today are in the same situation I was once in-struggling with dating-not understanding how men think -feeling uncertain as to whether a woman of this age is even desirable anymore. My goal is helping women find themselves again at this age so they can become these fantastic confident women that men are so highly attracted to. I truly desire to help women understand men plus give them the Keys they need to date these men successfully.
I developed coaching programs that are designed to help women over 50 with the challenges they have in their dating lives at this age. I want to help a woman understand she is still desirable and wanted at this age by many âQuality Men.â All she needs are the right keys that will unlock the doors for her to be able to successfully find the man of her dreams.