Will you talk to anyone about your relationship except your partner because most if not all discussions with your partner are exasperating, painful and ultimately depressing vicious cycle of attack and counterattack? 

Do you feel that whatever you say or do you can’t please your partner and in turn are treated as if you don’t deserve any respect or consideration in your own right?  To make matters worse do you also find that no matter how unhappy you become with the current state of affairs you remain too frightened of rejection and/or abandonment to stand up for yourself? 

Does your self esteem rise and fall like an unstable stock market as if everyone controls how you feel about yourself except you?   Do you expect perfection of yourself and others and find yourself feeling undeserving and/or unappreciative of the love and support available to you?

Do you ever feel so empty, numb or cut off from yourself that the pain of feeling useless and worthless to yourself and others drives you to drink, drug, eat, gamble, spend, or have sex to escape your misery?      

If you can identify with the stories above then, you are not alone and I can help.  I will

provide you a place of safety and security and together we will answer the question: What tools, strategies, and mindsets do you need to learn from myself for you to improve the quality of your life?  

I have worked as a psychotherapist for 16 years and my commitment to provide my patients quality care has motivated me to pursue a 6 year postgraduate certitifcation as a psychotherapist.  Teaching at the university level and writing have also  increased my effectiveness as a psychotherapist.