• Sometimes it’s hard to see your face without a mirror!
• Instead of asking whether the way you are living, behaving, and think-ing is “right,” I want you to ask if the way you are living, behaving, and thinking is working or not working.
• You cannot play the game of life with sweaty palms.
• You must demand nothing less than the best of yourself and for yourself. You must tell yourself that it is not wrong to want it all.
From Life Strategies: Doing What Works, Doing What Matters:
• Life Law #1: You either get it, or you don’t.
Strategy: Become one of those who gets it.
• Life Law #2: You create your own experience.
Strategy: Acknowledge and accept accountability for your life.
• Life Law #3: People do what works.
Strategy: Identify the payoffs that drive your behavior and that of others.
• Life Law #4: You cannot change what you do not acknowledge.
Strategy: Get real with yourself about your life and everybody in it.
• Life Law #5: Life rewards action.
Strategy: Make careful decisions and then pull the trigger.
• Life Law #6: There is no reality; only perception.
Strategy: Identify the filters through which you view the world.
• Life Law #7: Life is managed; it is not cured.
Strategy: Learn to take charge of your life.
• Life Law #8: We teach people how to treat us.
Strategy: Own, rather than complain, about how people treat you.
• Life Law #9: There is power in forgiveness.
Strategy: Open your eyes to what anger and resentment are doing to you..
• Life Law #10: You have to name it before you can claim it.
Strategy: Get clear about what you want and take your turn.