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Randi Fine
Randi Fine Quick Facts
Main Areas: Relationship CodependencyBest Sellers: Fine...ly: My Story of Hope, Love, and Destiny
Career Focus: Author, Speaker
Randi Fine is a radio show host and relationship codependency specialist living in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. By sharing her wealth of experiences, insights, and lessons, she aspires to offer hope, compassion, and understanding to those who searching for answers.
Randi has two adult children: a beautiful daughter and a handsome son, and has been married to a wonderful man for 23 years.
Her lifetime thirst for artistic, creative expression led her in 2008 to the challenge of writing her memoir,Fine…ly: My Story of Hope, Love, and Destiny. During the two year process of navigating through the unfamiliar waters of authorship, she discovered for the first time that she truly had a passion for writing. She now devotes herself to writing full-time from her home.
Love Your Life, is a journal that she writes to connect with others who share in her mission of spreading light, love, and healing to the world. She hosts the blog talk-radio show, A Fine Time for Healing: A Sanctuary for Your Emotional Wellbeing. On her show she discuss self-help and spiritual life-skill topics that will heal and enhance the life experiences of others. She is a deeply spiritual person, following an enlightened path of her own design. It is a connection that she faithfully trusts to guide her in every aspect of her life.
Other Programs & Highlights
For information about my media and event happenings, please visit http://randigfine.wordpress.com/media-and-events/
Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Randi Fine
Have you ever clung to a toxic relationship, believing that you have the power to love away that person’s pain, and the ability to fix their life?
Codependency is a debilitating disorder. It’s an addiction. The emotional disorder of codependency begins in childhood but it becomes evident when we begin to experience adult relationships. Codependents will often put others needs before their own while ignoring or discounting their own feelings, their own desires, and their own needs. It’s like the time I had accidentally found a syringe that my husband, who was supposed to be clean and sober, had hidden in a kitchen cabinet. The shock of seeing that needle sent me spiraling into panic, and when I confronted him he gave me his usual lame excuse. HERE’S WHERE MY CODEPENDENCY KICKED IN. I was devastated by the betrayal and overcome with my own pain, but…I told myself that I was stronger than he was--I’d be okay—it was him I had to worry about. I told myself that I’d just have to try harder to keep him happy… and I believed that if I loved him more and proved my devotion, he wouldn’t use again. At the time that made perfect sense to me. That‘s what I mean when I talk about clinging to a toxic relationship.
Those in codependent relationships are addicted to the pain and familiarity of a relationship that's toxic and unrewarding. In order for recovery to take place, patterns that have manifested themselves in the present must be dealt with first. The codependent must take responsibility for healing his or her self, regardless of what their partner chooses to do. Though codependency is an addiction, unlike many other addictions there is hope for a cure. They always have choices and can absolutely change their life.
Getting Started With Randi Fine
For more information about who I am, what my mission is, what my philosophies are, and more about Fine...ly, visit my website, http://www.randigfine.com.
