"The only place that women have ultimate power is in a relationship.  It is the woman's job to provide the appetite for pleasure.  To express appetite, the woman must have self-esteem and know what she wants.  Then she must ask for it in a way that her man can hear her."    Susan Sheppard,  How to Get What You Want from Your Man Anytime

" A man of self-esteem ...feels an intense need to find human beings he can admire-to find a spiritual equal whom he can love.  The quality that will attract him most is self-esteem."   Ayn Rand , The Virtue of Selfishness 

"Having a magical relationship won't happen just because you are in love.  You have to work to make the magic keep happening." Barbara DeAngelis, Make Love Last A Lifetime   

" The feeling that men are more susceptible to seduction can be countered by the fact that women get swept up in romance, and in the end, in love, we are all vulnerable, and women should not be seen as dangerous because we are desirable." Elizabeth Wurtzel, Bitch  

" There was just all this amazing light, very bright but not the least stark.  In fact this light was soft, almost like a cloud.  I remember feeling a sensation of not being physically there anymore, just floating in that bright, safe, peaceful light.  I must have had an orgasm at that point, but this feeling was beyond orgasm.  It was a feeling of spiritual connection so deep I can't even describe it... This is the way it's supposed to be.  This is what they mean when they talk about seeing fireworks and hearing angels sing." Dr. Sandra Scantling and Sue Browder, Ordinary Women Extraordinary Sex 

"   So many people are out of touch with their feelings.  When we have suppressed and closed off our feelings, we cannot contact the universe within us, we cannot hear our intuitive voice and we certainly can't enjoy being alive."  Shakti Gawain, Living in the Light. 

" Most women would rather keep their men and fake pleasure than take the risk of telling the truth and having their men leave." Ron Smotherman Transforming #1 

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Susan Sheppard

Relationship Coach

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Author of How to Get What You Want from Your Man Anytime available at www.amazon.com, www.gettingwhatyouwant.com, www.barnesandnoble.com