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Part 2: Self Improvement 101: The 62 Essential Truths about
Improving Your Life - by David Riklan
In Part 1 of our E-class, we
focused on answering the question, "What exactly is it that you
want?"
If you Missed Lesson 1, Go to
http://www.SelfGrowth.com/gwlesson1.html
In Part 2 of
our E-Class, we will focus on the next question, "Where can we
go for help?"
Part 2: The
31 Absolutely Best Resources for Self Improvement - by David
Riklan
Today's section
is designed to help explore all of the people, places and things
available to help us improve our lives. There
is some very good news. There are literally dozens of places to
go and people to talk to when it comes to helping us improve our
lives. Part 2 of this e-course is designed as a brainstorming
session to help you think about and understand all of the
different resources available.
Here I provide
you with a complete list of 31 resources, and for each section,
I include the pros and cons of using that particular resource.
Basically, I want you to use this for two reasons:
1. To get you
thinking about all of the different resources available to you.
2. To get
you thinking about the advantages and disadvantages for each of
the resources.
After you've
had additional time to digest these, we will get back to helping
you identify the best resources to improve your life. I have
divided the resources into five different areas to get you
thinking, and in some cases I have provided very specific
examples. How many of these resources have you used to improve
your life?
YOUR IMMEDIATE CIRCLE OF CONTACTS
As a general
rule, the people in this group are more likely to give you
personal attention, and they are more likely to sincerely care
about your needs. There are two things to look out for. These
people are not necessarily experts in the areas where you need
to improve, and they might have their own agenda, but they are
generally easily accessible and can be great resources to help
you improve your life.
1. Your
Friends
2. Your
Family
3. Co-workers
4. Your
Employer (boss or manager)
INFORMATION
RESOURCES (5-12)
There is an
unbelievable wealth of information out there to improve your
life. On the Internet alone, there are over five million
websites with the exact phrases of "Self Help" or "Self
Improvement." On Amazon.com, there are over 190,000 books with
references to Self Help and Self Improvement. Almost all of the
information you are looking for can be found here, but it could
take hundreds of lifetimes to find the right information for
you. Which of these resources do you currently use to help
improve your life?
5. Internet
Websites
6. Books (
Library, Bookstore)
7. Seminars,
Retreats
8. High
School, College or Continuing Education Courses.
9. Audio
Programs
10. Television
and Video Programs
11. Radio
12. Other
Media, Magazines, Movies, Music
TRAINED PROFESSIONALS (13-22)
A trained
professional can help you survive and to thrive in many areas of
your life. Many have worked with people in your exact
circumstances and helped them find the answers they were looking
for. As a general rule, professionals can provide you with more
objectivity than you would get from a friend or a family
member.
One of the
challenges of working with trained professionals is finding the
right one for you. It is important to find the right type of
trained professional (i.e.-therapist or personal coach) and then
the best person based on your background, needs and
personality. Trained professionals can also be very expensive
to work with and in some instances have a stigma attached to
them. In many cases, the benefits of working with a trained
professional far outweigh the costs and the risk, but this is
something that you need to evaluate.
13.
Therapists (Professional Counselors, Psychologists)
14. Personal
Coaches, Life Coaches
15. Clergy
(i.e.-Priest, Minister, Rabbi)
16.
Accountant, Attorney, Stockbroker, Financial Planner
17. Self
Improvement Experts (Tony Robbins, Dr. Phil)
18. Librarians
19. Personal
Trainer
20. Doctors
and Other Health Care Professionals
21. Employment
Experts (Job Placement Experts)
22. Psychics,
Spiritualist, Yogis
ORGANIZATIONS (23-25)
I am using the
term "organizations" in a very broad sense. These can include
non-profit and for-profit organizations and both professional
and social organizations. The biggest benefit that many of
these organizations provide is the ability to work with, network
with, and share experiences with people in the same boat, on the
same mission, or with the same problem. These organizations
frequently have "trained professionals," frequently have people
who are our friends and family, and use "Known Information
Resources" to help each of us grow. These types of
organizations are not for everybody, and the benefits that you
get back are tied directly into what you are contributing. The
wrong group could be a waste of time, but the right group could
change your life forever.
23. Non-Profit
Support Groups (i.e.-AA, Child Support Groups)
24. Social and
Professional Organizations (i.e.-Toastmasters, MENSA)
25. SPAs,
Health Clubs
26. Personal
Support Network (Master Mind Groups)
OTHERS POTENTIAL AREAS (27-31)
The above areas
covered countless resources to improve your life. I have
included a few other areas that others have found helpful in the
past. As you can see, there is a tremendous amount of overlap
between the different resources.
27. Free
Government Resources (Hotlines, Brochures, Help Centers)
28. Inner
Guidance (Asking and Giving Yourself Help)
29. Pets for
other wisdom (Great listeners)
30.
Mentors
31. God
Each and every
one of us has used at least one of the above resources to
improve our lives. In Part 1, we reviewed and defined our main
goals, and in this section, we reviewed the complete world of
help available to us to achieve these goals.
Your assignment today is to evaluate each of the
areas above and try to determine which of these has helped you
the most in the past.
In Part 3, we
will start evaluating which type of resources will work best for
us individually.
For those of you
who would like to go back and review part 1, please click here:
http://www.selfgrowth.com/gwlesson1.html
FINAL NOTE
For those of
you who want to jump right into additional resources, we have written a
comprehensive book, entitled: "101 Great
Ways to Improve Your Life"This book is revolutionary and brilliant idea delivered in
the format of 101 of the greatest success secrets of our time. Some of the
featured authors in the book include Brian Tracy, Zig Ziglar, Denis Waitley and
Jim Rohn.
To get
complete details, visit
http://www.selfgrowth.com/greatways.html
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