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DEPRESCULINITY: THE NEW TYPE OF DEPRESSION IN MEN - By Dr Paul Dobransky- Dilemmas of Codependent Men - by Submitted on May 26, 2012 from Darlene LancerThe dilemmas of codependent men aren’t talked about. Unlike women, men don’t discuss their relationship problems with friends and family. Instead, they internalize their pain. Many are in denial, suffer in silence, or become numb to their needs and feelings. They shun attention and try to do the ...
Views: 25 - Timing is Everything - by Submitted on May 22, 2012 from Pamela TurleyWhile eating dinner with a single male friend of mine, I was reminded again how important timing is in relationships. There's no way around it. We either manage the situation or the situation manages us. After we both pitched in the obligatory small talk, the conversation turned to the ...
Views: 40 - Psychological Tricks To Get Your My Ex Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Wife, Husband Back - by Submitted on May 22, 2012 from Vanessa MooreGetting an ex boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband back in a relationship is task you have to do if you really love your ex. When you finally get your ex back you will feel like the happiest person on the face of this earth. You will never want to lose them anymore again. I know the feeling. ...
Views: 42 - ***Getting Over Her Rapidly! - by Submitted on Dec 31, 1969 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.It's the age-old problem universal to all men. They may be already physically free of the wrong woman for them, whether they were the one to do the breaking up or vice versa. But... They are still impaired by her, ruled by her, whether still in contact from a few days ago and either obsessed ...
Views: 47 - What Men Desire In A Relationship - by Submitted on May 14, 2012 from Jon SibbsWhat do men want in a relationship? well not all guys are the same, but across the board there are some common desires, which you can learn to develop a healthy, and successful relationship just by reading this. I've been studying what men have to say about what makes them happy in terms of ...
Views: 57 - How to Woo a Man - 6 Important Tips - by Submitted on May 12, 2012 from Richard CappsWooing is less of an art and more of a science. Whether or not it's your husband, boyfriend, lover, or a seeming "Unavailable Man," there are secrets that every woman needs to learn in mastering how to woo a man. Please reflect on a couple critical questions and thoughts: - Are you confident? ...
Views: 81 - Is YOUR Partner Right for YOU? - by Submitted on May 10, 2012 from Rosemary PriceIs YOUR partner right for you?Are you really compatible with your partner? Whether you are married to yours, living with them or contemplating spending a lot of time with them in the future it is a good idea to know if you are truly compatible with them first. Remember that sometimes your ...
Views: 120(1 vote) - How to Cope with Depression - by Submitted on May 05, 2012 from Rosemary PriceDepression is one of the most awful things to get a handle on because you can be feeling dreadful yet to the outside World you look alright. You may have been feeling fine six months ago and now you are telling them that you wish you were dead, you are suicidal, you cannot get any enthusiasm to ...
Views: 101 - Want To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back? - Tips To Ensure Your Success - by Submitted on May 04, 2012 from Robbie LeeFocusing more on yourself might seem not logical when in the method of getting an ex boyfriend back. But let me tell you this, concentrating on yourself will get you the most effective results if you want your ex-boyfriend back. It's safe to say that the last thing you want is to go out and ...
Views: 77 - Enjoy Life NOW! - by Submitted on May 03, 2012 from Edward LewellenIf you were to rate yourself on how happy and fulfilling your life is right now on a scale of 1-10, with “1” being not at all and “10” being fantastic, where would you rate yourself? It’s an interesting question, because, if you’re like most people, you use generalized terms to describe your ...
Views: 68 - Do you need Romance? - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Rosemary PriceDo you need romance?How romantic are you? It tends to be considered to be old fashioned now to be interested in charm, dating, getting to know someone and to use courtesy and court a lover. Holding hands, sending flowers, sending love letters and many other things can be a sign of living this ...
Views: 149(2 votes) - Training in Counselling - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Rosemary PriceTraining in counselling... Many take this up as a new career but others can be drawn to it simply because they wish to understand themselves and their loved ones and give them the right hep when needed. It is good to help others and it is even better if you can help them to transform their ...
Views: 70 - Tip Your Marital Scales Into Joy! - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Noelle NelsonYour husband wakes up grumpy, stumbles to the bathroom, glances at your reflection next to his in the mirror, and says “What’s wrong with your hair?” You glare: “I slept on it funny. Good morning to you too.” Strike one against husband: “Why do you have to be so unpleasant first ...
Views: 63 - Life Path Numbers - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Rosemary PriceLife path numbers... heard of them before? If you are very young probably not, it tends to be the older person who knows about these because they can be considered to be old fashioned. This is a shame because they are very helpful to us. Some of us study or follow astrology and many of us follow ...
Views: 139(1 vote) - Cialis Tadalafil For Erectile Dysfunction Treatment - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2012 from Ziesha SheyErectile dysfunction is a common sex problem in men especially the middle age and elderly men. Defined as difficulty in holding sustained erections during love making, erectile dysfunction, although a worrisome condition can be easily treated and cured with the help of certain drugs, supplements ...
Views: 80 - Seeing an Older Man - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2012 from Rosemary PriceSeeing an older man is now popular for all different reasons and fall into two different categories. The first division you have is that some are for love and others are for sexual or practical reasons. There is a huge difference between a woman wanting to be with an older and more maturee man ...
Views: 112 - Selecting the right diamond band for your wedding! - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2012 from sangeeta sharmaWedding bands are special and a must for every wedding. They are symbol of love towards the person you are getting married to. This purpose of adoring wedding bands by far exceeds their ornamental function. Since married couples are expected to wear the wedding rings at all the time and so it is ...
Views: 34(1 vote) - ***The Social Injection Exercise - by Submitted on Dec 31, 1969 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.The advantages of the exercise that you are about to learn, for free, will be: 1. You will meet more women, or have a richer connection to the one you're with. 2. You will get a new career direction, resources, and guidance, or inject your current career with all new ideas, teammates, and ...
Views: 116 - ***The "Five Shoes" of Forgiving a Woman (and Being Forgiven) - by Submitted on Dec 31, 1969 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.We usually hear about the importance of resolving arguments with empathy and perspective for the other person described as "there are two sides to every coin," or "what would it be like if the shoe was on the other foot?" What about thinking about the shoe itself in that metaphor? Today we ...
Views: 138 - ***The Power of the "Underdog" Male - by Submitted on Dec 31, 1969 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.If you have ever been beaten down by life, rejected by a woman, fired, laid off, divorced, struck with a health problem, or some other challenge of life as a man - then you need to know THIS... Some of you may have seen the film, Invictus, with Morgan Freeman and Matt Damon, but like me, you ...
Views: 127 - Reunite With Your Beloved Is Never This Easy If You Know Which Emotional Hot Buttons To Push! - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2012 from Katharina PhangHave you had a relationship with a man that has unfortunately always been on the on-and-off track? Wanting him back is a completely normal reaction to a breakup, regardless of whether the feelings come right away, or over time. Here are some proactive tips for turning your ex to be in love with ...
Views: 136 - When Your Man Dumped You, This Is What You Have To Do - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2012 from Katharina PhangAre you a dumped girlfriend? What does it take to move on after a guy has broken up with you? Do you want to move on, but are paralyzed by sadness? Here is a dumped girlfriend guide to moving on. While Still Mourning, Do Realize That You Can Still Seduce Your Ex Back. Here's How: The ...
Views: 150(1 vote) - What really is premature ejaculation? - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2012 from Matthew J. GarciaPremature ejaculation is a topic that’s always talked about as if it’s some type of joke that people can laugh at and make people feel embarrassed about, which shatters their confidence. Society has made the world believe that intimacy is all about performance and if we can’t perform ...
Views: 105(1 vote) - How I Pick up Women so Successfully - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2012 from Colin DubbThis is a long article but I have basically synthesized 10 years of picking up women (Cold Approach), and 6 years of teaching into a few paragraphs. If I had this blueprint when I first started I would have saved myself years!! My results are consistent and I feel at this point in my ...
Views: 106 - How to Know if a Man is Married - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2012 from Rosemary PriceHow to know if a man is married. Any woman who is looking to date or has been dating for a while will understand when I say that some men out there say they are seeking to date when really they are just after fun. Typically a married man may pretend to be separated or single so that he can con ...
Views: 267(1 vote) - How to spot a Fake Fortune Teller - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2012 from Rosemary PriceHow to spot a fake fortune teller.... Contrary to popular belief a lot of those around who are no good at doing readings are NOT con artists. But they are irresponsible. They refuse to be tested to be sure they give accurate and helpful readings and wave this aside insisting it is not necessary ...
Views: 152(1 vote) - How To Treat Premature Ejaculation Naturally? - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2012 from Wisey LimIs premature ejaculation causing you much embarrassment? Have you been trying to find the natural cure to end this misery? Let me share with you 3 simple steps which you could apply immediately. You have found the answer to the question of how to treat premature ejaculation naturally. The 3 ...
Views: 168 - 30 Questions To Help You Find Your Best Self - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2012 from William Cottringer30 Questions To Help You Find Your Best Self By Bill Cottringer "You were not born a winner, and you were not born a loser. You are what you make yourself be." ~ Lou Holtz. The self-growth movement is all about people finding ways to help themselves and each other become their ...
Views: 206 - Love Advice from Male Astrology - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from Chris ReynoldsIt's amazing just how much impact the astrological traits of our ruling Planets have when it comes to those key relationships as well as our love lives. In this article I wanted to further explore astrological lover’s traits and compatibility, within the male relationship realm. The male ...
Views: 144 - Men's Sexual Health Treatment - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2012 from lincy thomasMen's Sexual Health Treatment Men's Sexual Health Treatment Male sexual health includes infertility problems, sexually transmitted diseases and erectile dysfunction. This article will focus on sexual dysfunction. Remedies include prescription or non-prescription drugs, surgery and ...
Views: 262 - What Are the Causes of Hormonal Imbalance in Men? - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2012 from lincy thomasWhat Are the Causes of Hormonal Imbalance in Men? Testosterone is the natural hormone that is dominant in males. A hormonal imbalance in men is created when a man has an overabundance of estrogen, the female hormone, in his system. It can cause urinary problems, lower sex drive, prostate ...
Views: 310 - What is a Sugar baby? - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2011 from Mira SmithA sugar baby is a male or female that is a companion for a person usually older in exchange for gifts, money, rent etc. A sugar baby is not a hooker or a gold digger, if you need milk you go to a store so I see nothing wrong with someone being compensated for their time. As a sugar baby you are ...
Views: 263(2 votes) - ***The One Universal Flaw, Excuse and Game-Changer in Dating - by Submitted on Dec 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Maybe you are a guy who has been searching for "that one thing" you could change to have better attraction and dating with women. It turns out that there is one amazing skill you have, which we could lock eyes on as a universal concept that ultimately makes you sink or swim with ...
Views: 432(1 vote) - Monogamous Sex and Sustainable Relationships - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2011 from Betty LouiseAs we begin to understand the differences in the male and female brain regarding our sexual desires and libidos, it feels important to examine the way we view monogamy in a long term sustainable relationship. Monogamy, as defined by wikipedia, is one + marriage; a form of marriage in which an ...
Views: 225 - ***Do Talk To Strangers - The Power of Projection in Dating - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.The most impassioned, powerful time of a physical interaction with a woman is early on in dating, when you don't even know each other as more than strangers. Ironically, it is also the most fickle, fragile, and potentially confusing time - one of missteps and miscommunication because it is so ...
Views: 527(1 vote) - ***Levels of Intimacy - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.It's something so subtle that most men don't know it's there, but it's at the top of the mind and of highest concern to women: the "intimacy" part of physical intimacy. Men would generally rather ponder the aspects of the "physical" part of course, but some attention to what's going on between ...
Views: 546 - Increasing Competence as a Dad - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2011 from Armin BrottDear MrDad. I'm a new father. I haven't had much experience with infants and I want to be involved in my daughter's care, but every time I try to pick her up, she starts to fret. How can I feel more competent? A: Few things can make a man feel less like a man than feeling incompetent. And ...
Views: 157 - Dads and Breastfeeding - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2011 from Armin BrottDear MrDad: Everyone says that new mothers should breastfeed their babies but I've never really know why. And, I know this sounds nuts, but is there anything I can to do to stay involved while my wife is nursing? I feel so left out. A: Before their babies are born, just about any expectant ...
Views: 192 - When Your Father Lets You Down - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2011 from Tony MonterastelliCollege football looms large in the lives of many American men. Even if we didn't put on the helmet and pads for our school, most of us played a few downs with our friends during childhood, or we passed the football back-and-forth with our own fathers. Going to college was a rite of passage for ...
Views: 190 - ***How to Deal With a Woman Who Can't Celebrate or Be Thankful - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Here are your missions of the week: We recognize that the three areas of a man's life which masculinize him, and make him feel most alive, vital and attractive are Work, Women, and Being a Man. At Men's Psychology Magazine we are not just about ideas and talk. We are about you taking the ...
Views: 386 - How To Improve Your Confidence – And Make Women Notice It - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2011 from Richard LisoOne of the most important "ingredients", if not the most important in your image as a man, and eventually in your success to attract women, is your confidence and the way you convey it externally. Having confidence allows you to remain calm and relaxed. Being confident, allows you to overcome ...
Views: 303 - What is an ideal gentleman in a mod lady's point of view? - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2011 from Joanna AndersAs it turns out the expression "ideal gentleman" is seen by male creatures and women quite differently. It is because of this misapprehension there exist all sorts of struggles and difficulties between madams and guys. This relationship problem is as old as the human race itself. Scholars and ...
Views: 377 - ***Decades of Women - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.We often lump women together into one group; as if they were all cut from the same cloth. While to a certain extent, it is possible that feminine instincts are uniform across demographic boundaries: the desire for resources, the desire for friendship or belonging to a group with focus, the ...
Views: 490 - ***The World's Greatest Invention - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Many men I know are unhappy and are completely lost. It sounds dramatic, but many men feel like they’re living in a plagued society burdened with disease. Infected and looking to the heavens, they need answers to prayers that aren’t heard. Most men are not even sure why they feel the way they ...
Views: 504 - Three Keys to Busting Out of Bewilderment with Your Beau - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs the Heart Protector of Women I have come to the realization that when a woman feels connected with a man she is dating, she can sometimes end up in a quandary of emotions regarding future expectations. Females are still encouraged today from a young age to allow the male to pursue them, but ...
Views: 206(2 votes) - Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? PART II - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2011 from Jonathon AslayDating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? PART II In Part I we talked about three key elements for women to consider when dating a divorced man. As the Heart Protector of Women, let me remind you that before allowing him to participate in any “undercover operations”, you must ...
Views: 223(2 votes) - The Wordallogic, Nov 1, 2011 - It’s Over and I Have Nothing Else to Say! – When there is No Closure - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2011 from Aleasa Word*Commentary is not a replacement for professional or legal advice. All articles are under protected property. Permission required to reproduce or duplicate. It’s Over and I Have Nothing Else to Say! – When there is No Closure -Author Aleasa M. Word As a woman, I continually try to ...
Views: 390 - ***The Number One Sexual Attractor - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Recently, I came across some stunning actual scientific findings from evolutionary psychology regarding a man’s ability to attract and date quality women who are right for them. After all, men worldwide want to find what works for them to become more accomplished in this area; to actually have ...
Views: 561(1 vote) - Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Jonathon AslayIf you choose to take on this mission, you must know before entering the territory that the terrain can be a very challenging. The agents of change will manifest in the dark and the baggage has not necessarily been left at the terminal. You will encounter emotional assaults from Agent “Ex” ...
Views: 359(2 votes) - How to Deal With Approach Anxiety – the Importance of Social Warm-Up - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Richard LisoYou enter a bar; you see lots of attractive women around you, but you just… kind of freeze. What seems weird, because just yesterday you were at the same bar and felt no anxiety at all. But today, you feel nothing, you just keep staring at your glass of beer, and have no idea how you managed ...
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